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L AW The team from Archers Law answer your festive themed queries … Christmas case file Q My wife and I separated earlier this year. We have no agreement in place in relation to my contact with the children over Christmas. How do I deal with this? A I would encourage discussions with your wife as early as possible in the hope that arrangements can be agreed. If you can’t agree, I would encourage you both to try mediation. A mediator is an impartial third party whose role is to assist parents in navigating their way to an arrangement that suits both parties. If that does not broker an agreement, seek legal advice. A court application can be made to determine Christmas contact arrangements, but such an application can take a number of months to conclude. Q My ex-husband and I divide Christmas holidays with our children between us, but my 12-year-old is saying she doesn’t want to visit her father this year. Can she decide whether or not she sees him? A Despite popular belief, there is no specific age at which a child can decide whether they do or do not see their non-resident parent. The wishes and feelings of a child are only one of a number of factors that the court would consider when deciding whether a child should have such contact. It’s generally accepted by the court that as a child gets older their level of understanding and maturity increases to such a degree that their views should be given more weight. I suspect the court would be keen to establish why your child is expressing the views that they are. They would also expect the resident parent to encourage contact with the non- resident parent. Q Last year a colleague said something drunkenly to the boss at the Christmas party. Things were awful for her afterwards and she handed her notice in. Is a Christmas party still classed as being at work? A This is a bit of a grey area in law. A recent case said you have to look at whether there was a sufficient connection between work and where the conduct was complained of. If the Christmas party was paid for using the company’s money and invited company employees, then there is a reasonable argument that any conduct during the Christmas party will be deemed as ‘in the course of employment’. This would leave an employee open to disciplinary action should any misconduct take place. Alternatively, if misconduct took place during a social gathering of work colleagues which was not a company organised party, then it would be more difficult for the company to argue that the conduct took place ‘in the course of employment’. However, it seems that your colleague left due to how her fellow employees treated her. If she suffered bullying and harassment and resigned in response to this, she could argue that she had been constructively dismissed as a result of the employees' conduct towards her. Family Law related questions by Zoe Tansley, partner, head of Family. Employment Law related questions by Joanne McHale-Young, associate solicitor. The information contained in this article is for a general understanding of the law, not to provide specific legal advice. This article should not be used as a substitute for you seeking competent legal advice specific to your situation from a regulated professional. tees-life.co.uk 55