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CELEBRITY INTERVIEW dancer on Dancing With The Stars. “He’s done so well, he’s a real all-rounder, but he flew over to watch me in panto last year and he was terrified! He said of all the things he’s ever done in his life he was more scared watching me come out on stage than anything else. “His wife told me he was actually underneath his chair at one point. As I did my first line, he popped up and said: 'Oh, she’s not half bad!' By the end of the show he picked me up and swung me round - he was so proud of me. It gave me such confidence because he’s so honest. He’s on me every week on Strictly. He will FaceTime me and check my hair and make-up,” she laughs. Landing such a high-profile job as head judge on Strictly should have been the icing on Shirley’s career cake, but along with the fame and accolades came some distressing online bullying. “When I was new to TV I was reading Picture courtesy BBC. “No, I have not tried some of the things people said about me. Things like: ‘You are so ugly’, ‘You’ve got a chest a parmo yet. Danny like a Seville orange’ or ‘Crawl back under your says it’s got five million rock, you need to be fired.’ “You know, it’s really cruel and personal, calories in it, but no but because my brother suffered with mental doubt yes, I will be health illness and he died, I always have that trying one.” thought when someone writes something bad. I ask myself: ‘What place are they in?’ I try to be the bigger person and write something personal back to husband) and Corky them - something kind and supportive. (Ballas, her second). “I know Mark would prefer I didn’t read these things at all, “It’s great. I love it. but I understand trolling now and take it with a pinch of salt. Me and Danny stay If they’re still being awful after two or three chances, I block in a fabulous hotel them. Simple.” here in Darlington Nasty comments aside, Shirley is in a really happy place and they are just so right now and is looking forward to the festive season, being accommodating. So on Strictly and performing as Mother Nature in Jack And The kind and so much Beanstalk for the people and children of Teesside. fun and just really nice genuine people. “I’m so happy to be employed in a job I love,” she admits. “Danny was in Blood Brothers and he’s been here many times “I’m used to being busy and there is enough time to rest when so he drove me round and showed me the sights. There seems you’re dead, right? to be an awful lot of places to eat!” she laughs, raising her “I have to be organised though, as I won’t have much time eyebrows. between doing Strictly and the panto, but I’ve already done all “And, before you ask – no, I have not tried a parmo yet. Danny says it’s got five million calories in it, but no doubt yes, I my Christmas shopping - I took my mum to the Wedgwood factory in Stoke and we had a fantastic day. I bought all my gifts will be trying one.” for the people at Strictly. I just have to get my cards bought now Shirley, in fact, lived for two years in Yorkshire as a teenager. so I can write them out and get them out early.” “Well, I was born in Wallasey but I’m a bit of a nomad,” she But what about the lady herself? What would Shirley Ballas says. like Father Christmas to bring her this year? Could she be As well as Yorkshire, she made London, Manchester, finding an engagement ring under the tree? Houston, Texas and Los Angeles her home through the years, “Would I like there to be wedding bells? Here in Darlington before finally moving back to the UK and finding stardom with during panto? Now wouldn’t that be spectacular?’ she laughs. Strictly Come Dancing. “I am wherever I hang my hat,” she shrugs. “I’m not attached to materialistic things at all. It didn’t faze me one bit selling my home in LA. The hardest thing was when my son Mark decided to live in America to follow a career on Broadway and Shirley is appearing as Mother Nature in in Hollywood. He was 22 at the time and I just went with him Jack and the Beanstalk at the Hippodrome, because I wasn’t married and thought I might be able to help. Darlington, from Friday December 6 to “When I left to come back here - well, all I can say is thank Sunday January 5. goodness for FaceTime!” darlingtonhippodrome.co.uk Mark now lives in California and has found his own fame Stateside as an actor, musician, choreographer, songwriter and tees-life.co.uk 15