about the process – especially if you’re feeling tired because of a long or challenging labour, or if thinking time suddenly disappears because of concerns about the baby.
Why might I need help with the birth of my baby?
Sometimes, when the second stage of labour is very long, an assisted birth is suggested because:
The baby needs a little help to move out of the birth canal, particularly if they are lying in the back-to-back position.
There are concerns about you or your baby.
You are exhausted.
You are unable to push, perhaps after an epidural, or because you have a condition that prevents you from doing so.
What are my other options?
As with any other medical intervention being offered, you can say ‘no’ to an assisted birth.
“You may find there is little time to
talk but, if there is, you can always
ask about alternatives, such as
changing position, squatting or
using a birthing stool, before giving
consent,” says NCT antenatal
teacher and midwife, Dot Parry.
Some women also wonder why an assisted delivery is recommended instead of a caesarean. “An assisted birth is offered first because a caesarean involves major surgery,” explains Dot.
“And sometimes it is quicker for a baby to be born using ventouse or forceps than having a caesarean, which is important if the baby is in trouble.”
If your doctor thinks that an assisted birth is possible but could be difficult, you will be moved to an operating theatre in case a caesarean section is then needed.
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