I understand that this condition or medication can affect my body in many ways. Will it affect my sex life at all?
STIs / STDs
It’ s important to practice safe sex, no matter your age. After divorce, separation, or the death of a spouse, some older adults may find themselves dating again and possibly having sex with a new partner. It’ s a good idea to talk with your doctor about how safe sex can reduce your risk of sexually transmitted infections( STIs) or sexually transmitted diseases( STDs). Your risk of contracting an STI / STD does not go down with age. Contracting an STI / STD is a possibility at any point in your life during which you are sexually active. In addition to the risk of being infected with HIV / AIDS, unprotected sex increases your risk of contracting chlamydia, genital herpes, genital warts, gonorrhea, pubic lice, syphilis, and other STIs / STDs. STD testing is not usually included in a regular medical exam so you will need to ask your doctor about testing. You may want to say something like:
I’ ve never been tested for STDs. Do I need to be?
Incontinence
Older adults sometimes have problems controlling their bladder or bowels. This is called urinary or fecal incontinence and it can often be treated. Depending on the type of incontinence you have, the doctor may recommend exercises, helpful ways to change your habits, prescribe useful medications, or advise surgery.
If you have trouble controlling your bladder or bowels, it is important to let the doctor know.
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