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Mount Auburn Dylan Fulton, Grade 11 To every life, there is a beg inning, middle, and end. All lives, all the different stories, end the same. They end with death, the equalizer. Their souls go somewhere beyond, while their loved ones wait, mourning, until their reunion. In the meantime, their graves act as an intermediary between the passed and the living. Their graves are placed among their deceased brethren in cities of the dead, the cemeteries. Love is the strongest human emotion, but even love bows down to death. Death is the only force strong enough to break the bonds of love. Death is one of the strongest forces known to man, but it is far from invincible. For death only kills the body, not the name. The living hold onto the names and, in an effort to protect them, honor the names of the deceased in their tombs, their crypts, their eternal beds, in cities of the dead. To break the bonds of love’s camaraderie is to evoke a pure sadness. Being the breaker of love, death leaves sadness in its wake. It is natural, then, that our views and representation of death reflect that sadness. The cities in which we place our dead are often void of happiness. These somber cities are coated in gray, but not a gray of cities, nor the gray of granite markers. No, this is the gray of emptiness, a fog of sadness. The green of grass, even rainbow of bouquets, are dulled in these dead metropolises. They become more of a place of sadness, and lose their purpose of remembering the deceased. The living, not being fans of sadness, avoid these lifeless towns. The dead stay unvisited, and die their second death, a death from being forgotten. There are countless numbers who have succumbed to their second death, all lined up in neat little rows. We must respect the dead and death, lest we too die twice. With such goals in mind, we must take seriously the idea of death, which often permeates the air with sadness and discomfort, both of which are unpleasant to the living. As such, the places we create to honor and remember the dead do the opposite, and only serve as a dumping ground for the bodies. It is clear then, that a balance is needed, a place that will honor the dead but will also leave the living uplifted. It was this goal that illuminated the hearts and minds of a few wise citizens from an early Massachusetts. They brought life to a place of death, so that members of both existences can enjoy. Those wise men were the founders of Mount Auburn Cemetery. For there is no other cemetery in the continent, or even the world, that can hold a candle to it. To even call it a cemetery is to undermine its true beauty. It is, as it has always been, a place of rejuvenation and of final rest. In Mount Auburn, death and its sadness is not the dominant emotion. No, for the rolling hills do not allow for the fog of sadness to settle. The gray emptiness cannot mask the hues and colors from the flora that inhabit this land. It is in Mount Auburn that life plays an equal part, if Summer 2015 | 7