Sure Travel Journey Vol 4.1 Summer 2018 | Page 22

• E N R O U T E / / S O U T H K O R E A © PAVONE/ADOBESTOCK The bridge connecting Busan to the island of Yeongdo. WAEGUGINS IN A JJIMJILBANG A TA L E O F C U LT U R E S H O C K A N D S T E A M B AT H S I N S O U T H K O R E A , B Y K A T H F O U R I E 22 // MAKE MEMORIES FOR LIFE in hand we push through the swing doors and into the steamy, sacred area of the all-female bathhouse. My awkwardness, standing entirely naked in rubber slippers that are far too small for me, is soon replaced by slack- jawed wonder at a shining, dripping, high- roofed room filled with deep pools. Digital thermometers blink the temperature in giant neon-red numbers, and I head off to what looks like the most scalding pool as Gigi scolds, “No, Kitty! Don’t be gross, you have to shower first! Duh!” I trail after her and squat on a plastic stool, one in a line of identical stations, and we use handheld showers to rinse off the sweat of the day. I try not to stare at the rows of local women, all vigorously scrubbing, brushing, washing, exfoliating and generally making themselves squeaky clean, completely comfortable with being totally naked. Squatting on miniature pink stools, grandmothers, mothers and daughters chat and groom, best friends share secrets and wash each other’s hair. I realise that the jjimjilbang is about far more than personal hygiene. “ I TRY NOT TO STARE AT THE ROWS OF LOCAL WOMEN, ALL VIGOROUSLY MAKING THEMSELVES SQUEAKY CLEAN, COMPLETELY COMFORTABLE WITH BEING TOTALLY NAKED “ Gigi is six foot tall, with a curly mane of hair down to her backside and dark honey-coloured skin. She is the product of a military love affair between her African American biological father and her petite Korean mother. Gigi is, like me, a waegugin – a foreigner – trying her inexpert hand at teaching young South Korean children how to speak English. We live on an island attached by a bridge to the mainland of Busan. Our island is called Yeongdo and is famous for its large navy school on one side, fresh-fish restaurants on the other (so fresh the wriggling creatures are mostly served live) and the cliffs of Taejongdae. It’s Friday night, and Gigi and I head off to the local jjimjilbang, or bathhouse, at the top of an obscure alleyway. The receptionist tries her best not to gawk as we hand over our 7 000 Won – I don’t blame her, considering we’re a rather comical pair when compared to the standard clientele. We’re sent off into the females-only side of the jjimjilbang, where we are given starched pink pyjamas with elasticated waists and string ties. Towels Once sufficiently pruned we find the “hot room”, which consists of eight deep pits of different crystals and rocks. First I bury Gigi in pink crystals up to her neck, then I worm my way into a pit of tiny black rocks and lie beside her. We sweat. Two waegugin heads whisper to each other, bodies buried in geodes and crystals, trading stories about heartache and boys late into the night.