them the money so you can afford to pay
the landlord?”
The dilemma: Having tried to survive
in your new flat for a couple of months,
you’ve suddenly realised it’s just not for
you and you want to move out. Now all you
have to do is tell your flatmates…..eek.
What you want to say: When I moved in,
I thought we’d have fun. In truth, you are
all the MOST BORING FLATMATES I HAVE
EVER MET. I NEED OUT.
What to actually do: Even if you get on
well with your flatmates, at some point
you may find you want to move out. The
most important thing is not to stitch up
your remaining flatmates, so you need to
tell them of your intentions and insist you
will help find someone to replace you. By
being as helpful as possible in finding a
replacement (that they will all like) you
are showing that you hold no grudges and
they will respect you for that. Hey, just
because you’re moving out doesn’t mean
you have to stop hanging out.
The dilemma: A friend from your course
has su