GALS TALK
He loves me...
Bridgett Dikgale
I
remember in my first year when the Rector made
a welcoming speech. He mentioned something about
making friends that will be friends forever; but what really caught my attention was when he mentioned something about “meeting your life partner”. To think of it,
many couples who met in university and they are happily married; does this mean that we all stand a chance of
meeting the right person here? I bet this became almost
everyone’s goal also, to meet Mr/Miss right, right? Some
people even call it the “second degree” or a bonus.
physically).
Your question might be, how will I know if he loves me
or he loves me not? Well even scientists or magicians
can’t answer that but I think if he makes you feel special,
makes you smile, makes you laugh, treats you right or
if he is willing to go the extra just to prove that he loves
you, you should give that person a chance. On the other
hand, if he makes you feel cheap, disrespects you or
even makes you feel bad about yourself, he doesn’t deserve you.
This made me very curious and experimental. Everyday
walking on Campus, I would just look around and try to
guess who it might be. It is fun, but some people often
go to the extreme measures and have their hearts broken, unaware that they are settling for less. I met a lot
of people whose hearts have been broken in the search
of finding the right partner. It is so painful to see them
being used and not being treated the way they deserve
to be treated.
We are often made side-chicks, one-night stands or
even hit-and runs. The question is, if he is the right one,
would you fall in that category? Don’t you think he would
make you his first (if not second) priority to prove that
he is serious about you? If he truly loved you, he would
climb the tallest tree on campus and say “I love this
girl” (please don’t try this, I mean literally) or even walk
around to show you off and not come to your room only
at night and do whatever he does then leave.
It is so sad that we often give attention to those who
don’t love us and push away the ones who truly do. I
think we all reached that matured stage whereby we
don’t choose a guy for his looks or his possession,
that Is so high school if not primary. You should go for
someone who would go an extra mile for you, a guy who
would catch a grenade for you or
even fight for you (not
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