Storizen Magazin July 2018 issue Storizen Magazine July 2018 Issue | Page 40

STORIZEN TRAVEL A family of three, the gentleman, Siva, drove us around in his Maruti car, showing unexplored local sights. The daughter would bring us our tea in little porcelain cups with a lid in the early morning cold; tea that we would sip sitting in the balcony taking in the majestic Himalayas in the distance. The lady of the house ensured, we ate and ate some more local food for our three meals and steaming hot bowls of maggie in frosty evenings. Our meals were usually accompanied by tales of their 40 | STORIZEN MAGAZINE folklore, politics, education system and economy. Marriage is an integral part of every custom with unique practices followed. Their community in Sikkim has an interesting manner of choosing a bride and groom. Conventionally, at a wedding ceremony in the village, a circle is formed with eligible boys and girls standing alternatively. Amid music and dance and under the watchful eye of the elders, if cupid strikes, the boy asks the girl if she is interested. If the feeling is mutual, families are approached. That was how Siva found his bride. She couldn’t help smiling ear to ear when her husband narrated their story. When it was time to head back, all three stood to wave behind our departing car like one would when a family member is leaving. The Indian army stands guard at the India – China border in Sikkim at Nathu La. NathuLa, a sensitive tourist spot, needs to be evacuated either before 2:00 pm or before the fog affects visibility. The Tri-colour fluttered against the Himalayas and it was difficult to say if we had goosebumps because of the howling wind or the sombre JULY 2018