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If you are struggling in one or all three then you will find it almost impossible to find Mr. Right.

Let’s look at how each of these is affecting your love life.

Self-love/self-worth/self-confidence is the most obvious but also the one

many women overlook.

Guys find confidence sexy. They want a woman who is confident in herself. Who is not scared to show off her body.

Guys love to see us naked so stop trying to hide from the guy your intimate with.

Let’s look at those so called “perfect” women you compare yourself too.

I bet one of the qualities you always notice is their confidence. Men notice it too!

Improving your confidence, self-love and self-worth also improves other areas of your life too, like your career or business.

It’s a great thing to work on for all aspects of you life.

Let’s look at limiting beliefs and blocks. We all have stories, beliefs and blocks that we picked up through out lifetimes.

Some we may be aware of and some we won’t.

If you grew up in a house where you felt unloved or like you didn’t matter, unconsciously you may create these same patterns with your emotional partners.

Another big one is your belief system. I always have women tell me there are no good guys left. Well of course if you believe this you are right.

Why?

Because our mind wants to prove us right. So,it makes you go for the undesirable men because you are telling it that is all that there is out there.

Now let’s look at the final pillar, balancing your masculine and feminine energy.

Are you a strong, driven woman,who pushes hard for success? Do you find you only attract guys that are narcissists, abusive, or controlling?Or maybe it’s the guys that are needy, clingy, or overly emotional?

If you are the strong, successful women who tries to do it all on her own and doesn’t need help, you may be too much in your masculine energy.