However, most men are more than happy to accompany you on your multi-orgasmic journey.
“To a guy, multiple orgasms are like all-you-can eat blueberry pie or like scratching off a winning lottery ticket, and then doing it again, and again... why would you ever stop?” says Solot’s co-author and partner, Marshall Miller. “Since most guys can't do it themselves, at least they can take vicarious pleasure in watching.”
That’s good news, because your partner plays a big part in the recurring pleasure process.
A woman’s best chance for multiple orgasms comes when her partner puts himself – or at least his orgasm – second.
His job is to provide what we normally think of as foreplay, but with an orgasm at the end. Good manual or oral stimulation before intercourse is usually the route by which women achieve multiple orgasms.
In fact, a pre-intercourse orgasm increases the chances that you’ll get there during intercourse, since the pressure is off for both of you.
Just remember – and remind him, if necessary – that most women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm during intercourse, whether for the first, second or ninth time.
Most important: If you think you can, you can. Hold onto the mindset you’ve learned when masturbating.
Finally, remember that multiple orgasms are the cherry on top of the sundae.
If you have them, great. But they’re certainly not required to make sex spectacular.