spicy diva magazine vol.2 Aug 2014 | Page 32

How to Be Multi-Orgasmic

Satisfaction Guaranteed… Again And Again

By Dana Demas

Ready to take your sex life to the next level? Two words: multiple orgasms. The fact is that women’s bodies were designed to be multi-orgasmic. That’s right, satisfaction again and again – and again – can be yours. Here’s how to get into the right mindset, train your body and enlist your current or future partner to maximize this woman-only perk…

"As the saying goes, sex is like pizza. When it’s good, it’s really good. When it’s bad, well, it’s still pretty good."

Multiple orgasms can make sex that delicious, deep-dish, never-gonna-forget-it experience.

(Disclaimer: No woman should feel pressured to have multiple orgasms, so don’t stress out about it.)

As Dorian Solot, sex educator and co-author of I Love Female Orgasm (Marlowe & Company), puts it: “Some women's bodies have multiple O's more easily than others, so while some have surfed waves of orgasms from the very first time, others need some extra advice to learn how. Women's sexual responses vary so dramatically – what comes easily to one woman may be quite a struggle for another.”

Ready to get started?

Know Thyself (and Thy Orgasm Ability)

While some women can achieve multiple orgasms without a road map, the majority of women need directions to the path of recurring bliss.

Masturbation is the starting point on your journey.

“Learning through masturbating can be so empowering,” Solot says. “Once you've done it on your own, you become confident that your body can do this, and then you bring that confidence the next time you want to try it with a partner.”