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Challenging other kids. While a toy that is too difficult may discourage or frustrate a child, a toy that is just challenging enough will motivate and inspire them. Look for toys that provide several layers of challenges or toys that can be adapted for varying skill levels. A set of blocks can initially be stacked in short towers of two or three blocks, but as the child gets ready for something more challenging, those same blocks can be transformed into an elaborate castle. Simplicity and versatility are key if you want to find something that will challenge your child through several developmental stages. Versatility and Adaptability Toys that are versatile and adaptable foster creativity and selfexpression. By using a single toy in multiple ways, your child will hone their problem solving skills and advance their language skills. Engaging Children will constantly use and repeatedly return to toys and games that are interesting and engaging to them, but they may shy away from or even refuse to play with toys that have been forced upon them. If your child isn't interested in the toy you have selected, leave if for a few days and introduce it at another time. By letting your child actively seek out the toys that interest them, you encourage them to work on the skills they are most ready to develop. Promoting Inclusion Inclusive toys promote group interaction and social skills. If you want to foster cooperation, look at games or activities that are designed for groups of children. If you are trying to promote social skills and self-esteem, look for toys like scooters or bikes that make it fun for special needs kids to join By keeping toys fun, you will make learning fun, and remember to celebrate every skill development no matter how large or small! 18