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Follow the
Million Dollar Baby Rule
I loved the film Million Dollar Baby. Deeply moving. Unforgettable. And though it was rich with so many life
lessons, there’s one in particular that I still think about: “Protect yourself.”
I believe I’m a world – class optimist. I try to stay incredibly positive. I’m committed to seeing the
best in every situation, and the good in every person I meet. I really do expect the best from life. But I also
prepare for the worst. That just makes sense to me. Life’s not a fairy tale. I must say that expecting the best
but preparing for the worst is not an easy balancing act. But I think it’s an important one for us to work on
and get right as we reach for our own unique forms of personal greatness.
So be splendidly loving and kind to people. Definitely. Give of yourself and help all those around
you as much as you can. Undoubtedly. Be one of those special people who leaves people better than you
found them. But I also suggest that you not become a martyr. The thing about martyrs is that most of them
get burned at the stake. Balance being kind and considerate to others with being kind and considerate to
yourself. Balance giving away your energy inspiring others with replenishing your energy so you remain
inspired yourself. Strike that delicate balance between loving others and loving yourself.
The thing about martyrs is that most of
Them get burned at the stake.
Set boundaries. Know your limits. Don’t go to extremes. Protect yourself.