Southern Writers Magazine January/February 2019 Southern Writers_JAN-FEB_2019 | Page 6

MEDIA A New Year and Time to Remember Your Social Media Why by Edie Melson T o say there were a lot of changes in social media platforms in 2018 is the grossest of understatements. First Facebook completely shifted the focus away from anything except personal interactions and engagement. Then Twitter cut off the ability to send the same tweet through multiple accounts (goodbye Thunderclap). Finally, there was the huge headache known as GDPR and the need to be insanely transparent with how and why websites collect information. Truthfully though, as much as I abhor change, many of these shifts have ended up being a good thing. The Facebook focus on real conversation has led me into deeper discussions online and stronger connections with my readers. Twitter’s changes have reduced the clutter and fake accounts and again it’s led to more authentic engagement. GDPR makes it easier for me to unsubscribe from unwanted email and cut down on the email I get without signing up for something. But the one thing 2018 has taught us is the need to remember WHY we’re doing this crazy thing called social media. Because when we remember the why, we can hang tough when the how, when and where change. When we forget the why—the foundational reason we’re doing this, we can experience: • Frustration • Burnout • Exhaustion As we get started in this new year, a lot of people I know are peeking around corners and waiting for another giant shift. We’re all weary of these changes and the fight to just stay afloat in the ocean of social media. But take heart, when we build from a strong foundation, the shifting world won’t leave drowning. So, what is the “why” of social media? That answer may be slightly different for all of us, but there are some foundational reasons that are most universal. The Whys of Social Media 1.  We want to sell more books. Let’s be honest here. Many of us do social media because it raises our visibility and that eventually translates into more books sold. 6    Southern Writers 2.  We want to have a positive impact on the world. This is a direct result of #1 and it is at once that difficult and that simple. We write to share truth, encourage others, follow God—and all of it to make the world a better place. 3.  We want to connect with others. Even those of us who are introverts still have the call to connection. We were designed for relationships. In our world today, part of that means social media. So that leads us to the revelation that the ultimate why is WHO. For social media to work, we must remember that every connection—every number—is a real person. Some of those who interact with us are looking for entertainment, some for hope, some don’t know what they’re looking for, but here they are, crossing our paths. Our whys are found in two relationships: 1. In God. The ultimate WHO. Those of us who follow God feel He’s called us to write as part of that journey. For us, He is always the first Who—the audience of One who will imbue our words with power and reach. 2. In those who read our words. The second who is all the individuals we’ve been entrusted with. It’s an honor and a responsibility that people follow us, and we need to prove loyal to that trust. Some of them are readers because they buy our books. Others will only see our words in a social media post. But we can enrich lives with our words—no matter where they’re written. Social media will continue to change and evolve. The things we become comfortable doing will be replaced with something unfamiliar. But through it all, the people whose lives we touch are our constant. When we keep this focus in mind, we’ll always be ahead of the game. n Edie Melson is the author of the bestseller Connections: Social Media and Networking Techniques for Writers. She’s the co-director of the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference, Social Media Mentor at My Book Therapy, and the Senior Editor for Novel Rocket. Visit Edie on her blog, Twitter, and Facebook.