Solutions February 2018 | Page 27

President Harry S. Truman said, “In reading the lives of great men, I have found that the first victory they won was over themselves. . . . Self-discipline with all of them came first.” That is true not just of great achievers, but also of effective leaders. Good leaders practice self-control before they try to engage others. Self-discipline comes before leadership success. It is the price tag of leadership. When I was in college, I studied Greek and Hebrew. One of the words for self-control in Greek is egkráteia. I think this word gives great insight into what someone needs to lead effectively. The word means to get a grip on oneself. It describes people who are willing to get a grip on their lives and take control of areas that will bring them success or failure. That’s critical because I need to get a grip on me first before I try to get a handle on leading others. As leaders, our greatest challenge in leadership is leading ourselves first. We can’t expect to take others farther than we have gone ourselves. We must travel within before we can travel without. Many highly gifted leaders have stopped far short of their potential because they were not willing to pay this price. They tried to take the fast track to leadership only to find that shortcuts never pay off in the long run. SELF-DISCIPLINE MAKES LEADERSHIP’S UPHILL CLIMB POSSIBLE There is a truth you need to recognize, not just for leader- ship, but for everything in life. For the last year or so I have been teaching it extensively to people wherever I go. Ready? Here it is. Everything worthwhile is uphill. Think about this. Everything worthwhile is uphill. The word everything is inclusive. It’s all- encompassing. Pair that with worthwhile— the things that are desirable, appropriate, good for you, attractive, beneficial. Anything and everything you desire in life, everything you would like to strive for, is uphill, meaning the pursuit of it is challenging, grueling, exhausting, and strenuous. The implications are simple: there are no such things as accidental achievements. No person who has climbed the mountain of success ever said, “I have no idea how I got to the top of this mountain. I just woke up one day, and here I was.” Solutions 27