Solutions February 2018 | Page 18

ENVY: A DEADLY SIN By Timothy & Kathy Keller A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. (Proverbs 14:30) The power of envy. In the Bible we are told that God is a jealous God (Exodus 34:14). But in God it is jealousy for something. Jealousy is “the proper intolerance of disruptive intrusion and is thereby a mark of love (as the opposite of indifference.)” 101 Jealousy in its essence is a commitment to a relationship. It is stirred up when it moves us to maintain a threatened relationship or restore a broken one. Paul speaks of his jealousy that the Corinthians 18 Solutions would be exclusively devoted to God. This moves him to use some strong language to wake the readers up (2 Corinthians 11:2ff.).102 Sinful jealousy is not jealousy for but of someone. Envy is wanting someone else’s life. You see they have something better than you do, and instead of rejoicing in the good they have, you weep over the fact that you don’t have it. So envy is wanting aspects of somebody else’s life. As the second clause tells us, this rots the bones. It can literally eat you up—physically and spiritually. Be honest and admit whose life you