Solutions December 2019 | Page 7

be more challenging, and sometimes more uncomfortable—but is no less important. When we recognize that every person is significant and embrace our ability to let others know this, we begin to see the countless opportunities we all have to instill this understanding in the people around us. In the minutes that pass us by in our everyday activities, simple acts can change the world, one moment at a time. Someone’s world is brightened in the moments when we take note of a server’s name, ask her how her day is, and invite her into conversation. T h e s e a re e x p e r i e n c e s w e c a n’ t underestimate, interactions that show someone they are more than a means to an end. Someone’s life is made a little better in the moments where we slow down and take time with the clerk at the grocery store and listen to pieces of his story. These are times when somebody knows they are more than a name tag. Someone’s existence is valued in the moments where we walk up to a veteran, a police officer, or a firefighter and take their hand in ours and say, “Thank you for keeping people like me safe.” These are times when sacrifice is acknowledged and bravery is appreciated. THE There are moments in every single day when we have the opportunity to show someone they are known; that they’re important. Every day we can choose to see people. This is where many of us get hung up—it’s a choice. It’s easy to draw lines separating us, outlining whether or not we support a war effort, ascribe to a particular political party, or practice a certain faith. The more difficult thing— but the right thing—is to take time for others regardless of our differences. In moments like these, we are reminded that we are all trying to find our way. We never know when our efforts to spend a little time with someone will make a lasting difference in their life. But we do know actions like these always leave an imprint. They always fill others up with a sense of love and purpose. There are communities where people choose to know others in their pain, individuals who sit with the homeless and share a meal, talking about whatever they want to discuss. There are men and women who volunteer time at shelters, teaching residents life skills after spending years in prison. People are willing to work with local churches, using their kitchens as places to make Solutions • 7