Solutions August 2019 | Page 39

Character Comes From Within By Rolando Lamb It’s easy to see that sports dominate our culture. Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why? Why do sports dominate culture to the point of idolatry? Why do we take them so seriously? I am reminded of a field goal kicker who missed the goal at the end of the game only to receive death threats later on. You know as well as I do that this should not be. It’s not the right response to a player in a game. Here are a few reasons sports dominate our culture: • Sports are the creativity of God expressed through man. • Ever y person identifies with competition. • Athletes pursue their dreams. • Athletes are disciplined. • Athletes get the immediate results of winning. I’ve played sports, mainly basketball, all my life, and now I have a son in the NBA that I trained from the time he was a child. I’ve come to believe that sports tend to build characters more than they do character! A myth has become deeply rooted in our society: It’s that when a player dives for a loose ball, fights to come back after being down and almost out, or hits the winning shot under pressure, he or she is manifesting superior character. Is that character? Not necessarily. Does sports build character? It can, but not without guidance. We have watched some of the most determined and talented athletes through the years reach the pinnacle of success only to fall hard to the temptations that accompany being on top. When you evaluate someone’s character, you must look at the choices they make and the actions they take regularly, not just on the court. I realize from working with athletes across the country they Solutions • 39