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now one of the seven- teen amputees from that day, and sometimes the bravest thing I can do is work up the cour- age to leave my house. PTSD is a very real thing, and once you see what we did, there is no com- ing back from it. On the positive side however, I feel like I have been given an incredible plat- form to potentially en- courage others through the trials I have faced. I have realized how pre- cious life truly is, and I want other people to be reminded that no matter what troubles they are facing, our blessings far outweigh our problems. And speaking of bless- ings, I have the most amazing support system who I owe everything to. My husband and two beautiful children keep me going, and because of them, giving up will never be an option. Q: You’ve written a memoir in which you share your story— Taking My Life Back. Tell us what that title means and why you decided to write the book. A: The title means every- thing to me. Taking my life back is what I feel like I am choosing to do ev- ery single day. I am de- ciding even on hardest ones to find their beauty and let my trials make me stronger. It is not al- ways the easiest thing to do, but it is always worth it. And believe it or not, writing a book has been dream of mine since I was ten years old. I nev- er imagined that I would have so many crazy happenings to fill the chapters with, but that is why it has become so important to share them. If I can help someone else by sharing my raw- est moments, it gives my journey a little more purpose. Q: Your journey began long before the bomb- ing on April 15, 2013. Tell us about your childhood and some of the chal- lenges you faced as a young girl. A: I grew up in a very abusive home, where picking the wrong thing to eat first on my dinner plate had the potential to throw my biological dad into a complete tirade. He was an evangelist and trav- eled all over the world preaching, but his family got to see who he really was when the church doors closed. This gave me a very distorted per- ception of what chris- tianity was at a young age, and even though my father ended up giv- ing us up when I was a teen, the message that I would never be good enough, has played a very prominent role throughout my life. Q: Your mom was by your side nonstop while you recovered in Bos- ton. What would you say is the biggest role that she’s played in your life? A: My mom has played a big role since I was lit- tle. At one time, she was probably the only real reason I even believed in God. I watched my mom go through things no one should ever have to go through and it breaks my heart still to this day. But my mom has always been there. So it wasn’t a surprise that she took on the role of caretaker throughout my recovery. She has always been there to pick up the pieces, and I will always be eternally grateful for the privilege of being her daughter. Q: You say your legs pro- tected your then 5-year- old son Noah from the blast of the bomb. How is he doing? How has the trauma of the bombing affected him? Solutions 23