Soltalk February 2020 | Page 44

Wellbeing Peace in the world, what can we do? It’s true; the world is on a downward spiral, in a mess and getting messier. War, famine, disease, climate change, ego driven world leaders, to mention but a few of our increasing ailments. The world is sick. Despair prevails at our inability to stop the onslaught. How do we halt the inevitable? Our grandchildren really are going to thank us for this disaster! Friday mob to see the destructive influence of greed. We do connect with each other. If you are in a good mood it affects those around you. You have the ability to bring about change. FACT. We want a better world. What can we do? We can change our behaviours from critical, judgmental, uncaring, selfish, and unforgiving to behaviours more in keeping with the world that we aspire to. You do a little, and I do a little. They do a little. Our combined influence will effectively spread and bring about changes in attitude, governments, laws and ultimately the quality of life of the planet. Personal changes are one thing that each of us has at our disposal. We want a world of peace. It makes sense to be at peace with ourselves as a starter. Joy in the world will come from this. But, but, but WE didn’t cause it. In this pantomime season I say “OH YES WE DID.” The world that our grandchildren will inherit is a consequence of our combined, not malicious but misguided activities. We do acknowledge this with regard to natural phenomena i.e. weather, air quality, etc. Governments are now belatedly attempting to rectify the damage before it becomes irreversible. The way this works is quite simple in theory, a little more difficult in practice. The more you practice it the easier it becomes. You set your goal. I am going to be at peace with the world and myself today. First thing, make sure that you are at peace within yourself. Get rid of all feelings of anger and bin the grudges. Anything in fact that influences your “feel good factor.” Try as much as possible to be in the NOW. Looking forward and backwards are counter productive. This moment is all you ever have. Live it, use it. Don’t criticize don’t judge. And this includes yourself. Be kind to yourself, you are not perfect, and you are doing your best. You want the world to be at peace. Work at it. Stay in the now. Be at peace. Please bring peace into our world. I am trying to do the same. Sometimes we will fail but sometimes we will succeed. Stick with it and have a great, peaceful year. TONY DOWNEY Unfortunately the same is true with respect to the destructive behavioral aspect of our world. Each one of us, in our own little way, played our part in making the world a most unwelcome place. Our very own petty, greedy, uncaring, selfish and sometimes brutal behaviour multiplied by millions doing the same things makes a world of pain and sorrow full of injustice and hate. It is awful to feel that we are part of this but the reality is that each of us, with very few exceptions, contributed our drop of malice into the boiling cauldron of mother earth. We can’t change all of it, but we can change some of it and in the same manner as we contributed to the decline of the earth. A mood influences others. Anger creates anger. Anxiety and fear spread like a disease in any social gathering. Watch a black 42