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BXnc Xsâ PohnX¯nse sS³j³ AXnPohn¨
Ncn{Xw ]dªp \nÀ¯n.
sNdp¸¡mcpsS Ifnbpw Iq«pw kwkmchpw I
ïmð AhÀ¡v sS³j³ Dtïmóv Bcpw kwibn
¡pw. ""Fsót¸mepÅ sNdp¸¡mÀ¡p sS³j\p
ïv,'']Xn\mepImcn KncnP ]dªp XpS§n. ""R§
fpsS {]mb¯nð R§Ä ]eXns\¡pdn¨pw DXv
IWvTs]Smdpïv. R§fpsS icoc¯nepïmIpó
amä§sf¡pdn¨v, kvIqfnse Imcy§sf¡pdn¨v, Iq
«pImsc¡pdn¨v. F´n\v, aäpÅhÀ Fsó¡pdn¨v
F´p hnNmcn¡pw FtómÀ¯pw DXvIWvTs¸Sm
dpïv.''
am-\-kn-I ]n-cn-ap-dp-¡¯n-\v hfÀ¨bpw im-co-cn-I
cq-]-am-ä-hp-am-bn _-Ô-apïv. b-Ym-À-Y¯nð Iuam-c-¡m-cn-se am-\-kn-I ]n-cn-ap-dp-¡w h-f-sc {]-[m
-\-s¸-« B-tcm-Ky-hn-j-b-hpw Iq-Sn-bm-Wv. Cu {]mb
¯nð im-co-cn-I-hpw, ssh-Im-cn-I-am-b ]-cn-h-À¯-\§Ä \-S-¡póp. ]p-Xn-b- ku-lr-Z-§Ä, {]-W-b-§Ä
Fón-h D-S-se-Sp-¡póp. IqSmsX kvIqfnse B
hiy§Ä, IpSpw_{]iv\§Ä apXembhsbms¡
Ahsc ]ncnapdp¡¯nem¡mw. Cu L-«¯n-epïmhpó ]n-cn-ap-dp-¡w A-h-cp-sS im-co-cn-I-hpw ssh-Im-cnI-hp-am-b B-tcm-Ky¯nð sNdpXpw hepXpamb {]-iv\-§Ä Dïm¡pw. sS³j³ ssIImcyw sN¿póXn
se t]mcmbvaIÄ Ahsc hnjmZtcmKw t]mepÅ am
\knI {]iv\§fnte¡v XÅnhns«ópancn¡mw.

F´mWv am\knI ]ncnapdp¡w?
W m kI n
d¡
A`napJoIcn¡pó shñphnfntbmSpÅ
icoc¯nsâ {]XnIcWamWXv. shñphnfnIÄ
imcocnIambh tbm, am\knIambhtbm, _u²n

Ft¸mÄ klmbw kzoIcn¡Ww?
Nnet¸mÄ kvs{Skv \n§sf Iogvs¸Sp¯n
sbóncn¡mw. hntijn¨pw AXnsâ
ImcW§Ä \oïp t]mIpt¼mgpw, {]iv\
§Ä ]Sn]Snbmbn IqSn¡qSn hcpt¼mgpw. ]
cnlmc¯n\v Hcp hgnbpanñmsX \n§Ä {]
iv\§Ä¡v \Sphnð AIs¸«p t]msbóv
tXmóntb¡mw. A§s\ tXmónbmð aäpÅ
hcpsS klmbw kzoIcn¡m³ kabamsbóv
AÀ°w. AXn\pÅ kqN\IÄ Xmsg]dbp
óhbmWv.
$kvs{Skv \n§fpsS BtcmKys¯
_m[n¡psóóv tXmópt¼mÄ
$]T\w \nÀ¯m³ tXmópI, Hfnt¨mSm³
tXmópI
$Pohn¨n«p Imcyansñóp tXmópI;
hnjmZw, k¦Sw apXembh IqSn¡qSnhcnI.
$hni¸nñmbva, Dd¡anñmbva
$\n§fpsS {]iv\w aäpÅhÀ a\Ênem¡n
ñ; AXn\mð AtcmSpw ]dtbï Fó tXm
óð
$kvs{Skv amäm³ aZytam ab¡pacptóm
D]tbmKn¡m³ XpS§nbmð

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