Six Star Magazine Six Star Magazine Winter 2011/2012 | Page 37

FEATURE skills, training hard, and having fun while Female Para-Swimmer of the Year in 2008. She Stephanie had a friend who loved being an competed with able-bodied swimmers at both au pair and she thought it was something she recognizing the uniqueness of each swimmer the Canada West and Canadian Interuniversity would like to try. She also admits that there are the cornerstones of this competitive championships. In 2009 at the International are times in her life when she must appreciate swimming program, which could not be more Paralympic Committee (IPC) World Short Course that her disability might affect her lifestyle. perfect for Stephanie. Championships in Rio de Janeiro, Stephanie “I was curious to see if I would experience smashed the world record in the women’s any difficulties taking care of a child,” she in her new role is to teach these young S9 400m freestyle and the 100m backstroke. says, “as one day, I hope to become a parent.” swimmers about humility. “Part of being Right up until the 2010 IPC Swimming World Stephanie was looking for a short-term successful is to know when you need help Championships in Eindhoven, Netherlands, placement so, armed with some Spanish and to ask for it,” says Stephanie. “People are Stephanie participated in Paralympic and World she had learned in school, Stephanie found raised to believe it is a dog-eat-dog world Championship events all over the globe and herself a temporary job as the au pair to a and that asking for help is a weakness. It is you would be hard-pressed to read a story 2½ year-old girl in Spain whose parents just the opposite – it is a strength.” about disabled swimmers without Stephanie’s wanted their daughter to learn more English. name coming up and her brilliantly smiling face beaming from the newspaper pages. That beaming face has also become one Like anyone going into a brand new situation, Stephanie had trepidation. Her One of Stephanie’s personal missions Stephanie is also continuing to push herself to go outside of her comfort zone. She believes that we stop growing as soon as biggest fears revolved around her ability to of the symbols of Canada’s participation in respond to an emergency. “I had the fear Paralympics sports. In one Canadian Paralympic that if she ran out onto the road, if I was Committee poster, though, Stephanie is wearing my prosthetic, I would have hands anything but beaming. In the ad, she is seen free to grab her, but I would not be quick looking especially fierce and the copy reads, to get to her. If I had my crutches, I'd be “She doesn’t want your sympathy. But her fast, but I would not have free hands,” she opponents might.” When asked which is the remembers. But it all worked out beautifully real Stephanie — the beaming smile or the fierce and Stephanie had a wonderful break from expression — she admits that even under intense the pool. pressure, behind that serious face is a smiling person who can’t really believe she is able to participate in these great adventures. Life outside of swimming... maybe later It was not too long before the call of the Life outside of swimming... yes, really swimming pool once again became too So, what does any red-blooded Canadian mother moved to Whitehorse, Yukon, and swimmer who is at the top of her game and while Stephanie was visiting, she was asked living life immersed in a swimming pool by the local swim club, the Whitehorse do next? Well, become an au pair in Spain Glacier Bears, to work with some swimmers. of course. For the last 15 years of her life, As Stephanie says, she jumped in foot first, Stephanie had seen herself as a swimmer and has not looked back. What started as first, second and third. “I was the centre of a vacation has now become a new chapter my own world for so long,” she says. “I was in Stepha