She Is... September | Page 12

Queen

Cues from

the

Red Queen

Check this out, in every situation that we face, if there is a decision to be made we have a choice on where that decision comes from. Do we follow our hearts, our minds or dig deeper and bare our souls? Different situations require different answers from different resources. Therefore, the best possible decision has to come from all three. Listen, among all of the choices that you make in your life, the ones that your head, heart and soul agree upon will be the answer you’re looking for. Among the decisions that you make, when you only think with your heart, you have a 95% chance of getting hurt. If you only go with your head, you have a 75% chance of backfire. Your soul alone will earn you a 50/50 shot at a breakdown. You will have a lot better outcome if you combine the three and make a more informed, intelligent decision, no matter what the situation may be.

All that being said, in the wake of what happened to this beautiful, young girl who was found dead in a hotel freezer; we really need to evaluate our “friends”, our children’s “friends”, and ourselves and our surroundings. There were a lot of choices made in that situation that shouldn’t have been made, however there were also some decisions that were outright malicious and some that even as adults, we have made ourselves when we were young. The only blame that needs to be placed is on those with actual bad and/or harmful intentions. The thing that I would like for all young Queens to know is that, you can not run around here thinking with your head or your heart only, that you have these “bff’s” (best friends).