Forward
“ When I was approached to write the forward to this book”… I always found it funny that most forwards started out like that. As if the person writing the forward had a higher intellectual level, that the writer of the book itself had to lower and humble themselves, before the awesome presence of the other to justify the existence of their own book. That was not the case here. Since I know Eirini personally I was one of the first to read her book. After I read her book( several times) I approached her. I requested of her the honor of writing the forward for her book.
This book spoke so close to my sensibilities and addresses, what I feel is a major problem that humanity faces. I had to ask for this honor.
Sexuality and our sexual nature has become so warped, twisted that it is more associated with shame, jealousy plus many other negative thoughts. It is no longer thought of as the beautiful, wonderful, basic and to the point, core part of humanity’ s being. Sexuality, our sexual nature is not shameful, the idea of what it has been twisted into is. And that is what this book addresses and attempts to correct. It is that, that I had to be a part of. Sexuality is beautiful and universal. It starts at the beginning of life and endures till death. It is a true joining, a union with another. It is a desire and a need.
Addressing the problems that I have with Eirini’ s book. I don’ t, in actuality, have a problem with this book. After I understood the nature of the book. After I translated the book to make it understood in my reality. Eirini and myself exist in two different realities. In many areas our realities overlap and in some, co-exist, but in many more areas, the languages are not the same. The reason for this is our backgrounds. Eirini was raised a female in Greece and I was raised a male in the United States. I gave my personal reality the name K. I. S. S.( Keep It Simple Stupid). I take everything I can and reduce it down to its simplest equation. That way I can later look at the subject deeper to come to a fuller understanding.
So following is an aid, some guidelines for those who live in a similar reality to mine, to understand this book and to get all that they can from its knowledge.
Start this book with the feeling of‘ the golden rule’. Treat others how you want to be treated. Also, think of this line, in order to receive you must also give. This book gets really deep and gives a lot of aids for strengthening your personal sexuality energy level. However, at my level, the‘ golden rule’ applies. If you want your own sexual charisma to strengthen you must also think and treat others as much of the sexual being that you are.
To show my logic look at this precept, many feel fear at the idea of speaking in public. In order to counter act that fear people created the idea of picturing the audience naked. This thought is a bad aspect of sexual nature and shows again how our sexual nature has been twisted. The idea is that if you picture the