By Bisi Adewale
“LET MY BELOVED COME INTO HIS GARDEN,
AND EAT HIS PLEASANT FRUITS.” SOS 4:16B
T
he way your man sees sex, is quite different from your
perception of sex. It means much more to your husband
than to you. He is passionate about it and might even be
“crazy” about it. Sex affects the way every man reasons. Once
you understand the importance of sex to your man, I am sure you
will be able to go all out to satisfy him.
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IT BRINGS HIM TO A STATE OF REST
Have you ever noticed your man’s countenance after you might
have given him a good dose of ingenuity and generosity of your
body in the bedroom? Have you ever observed that he usually
feels fulfilled and at rest after a good performance in bed? Great
sex is good for your husband; it takes his body to its state of rest.
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IT BRINGS THE BEST OUT OF HIM
Do you want to see the best in your man?
If yes, give him good sex regularly and
see how he will respond to you with love,
care and admiration. On the other hand, if
you want the worst of him deny him sex
and see the animal in your man.
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A BETTER MARRIAGE
IT BOOSTS HIS SELF-CONFIDENCE
Many men who find it difficult to have or sustain
an erection think they are not “men enough” in their
own eyes; hence, they have a bad self-image. On the
other hand, a sexually satisfied man develops selfconfidence. Sex fulfills his manhood, makes him feel
good about himself and makes him appreciate himself
as a man.
A group of young men were presented with two options
to choose from. To be amputated in one hand and
leg or to die? They all answered that they preferred
to be amputated than to die. Then they were asked if
they’d rather die than become impotent. Almost 90%
of them preferred to die than become impotent. That is
the level of importance men attach to their sexuality.
This elucidates the reason your man is “unnecessarily”
angry when you deny him sex.
A sexually satisfied man is likely
going to be a loving husband, which
results in an intimate marriage full of
CREATES A BOND BETWEEN A
love and peace. Some unexplainable
MAN AND HIS WIFE
behaviors of your man can be traced
The outcome of a vibrant sex life is a good married
to the bedroom. Likewise, unusual
care and display of great affection can life. It brings a man closer to his wife, enhances
good communication and culminates in togetherness,
also be traced to sexual fulfillment.
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oneness, fondness and unity among couples.