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O IN TME N T F O R T HE SO UL ••• REV WILLIE BOTHA A PRICKLEY PEAR STORY READ: Proverbs 1:1-9 ONE DAY, LONG AGO, MY FATHER AND I WERE WAITING FOR OUR CATTLE IN THE BLES­ BUCK CAMP ON OUR FARM, SWARTFONTEIN. THAT WAS WHEN HE TAUGHT ME HOW TO PICK AND EAT A PRICK­ LY PEAR IN THE VELD. I t was early February and we were sitting next to a large prickly pear bush. He said: “Let me show you how to eat a prickly pear in the veld.” He selected a prickly pear and carefully picked it. Then he uprooted a bitter ‘karoobossie’ and used it to roll the prickly pear on the ground, thereby getting rid of almost all the little thorns. He then used his pocket knife to peel and cut open the prickly pear. It was one of the tastiest prickly pears that I ever ate. Not long after that I was in the veld again, alone this time. There were still a lot of prickly pears on the bush. I remembered how my father picked the prickly pear and before long I had one on the ground. The ‘karoobos­ sie’ did its job and I ate this very sweet prickly pear. However, when I got up I realised that I had a problem. Then it dawned on me: I had forgotten one of the most important things that my dad taught me about prickly pears. I stood against the wind when I picked the prickly pears. With each one I picked, thousands of little thorns blew over me. I learnt a lot more than just having to stand on the right side of the prickly pear bush. I also learnt that my dad knows things which I don’t know yet. He taught me how to pick prickly pears because he knew that they are sweet, but he also knew that prickly pears have thorns. In Proverbs another father is teaching his son. This father does it because he knows that “...life if full of promise”, but there are thorns as well. The writer does it because he knows certain things about life which his son still has to learn. He teaches him about wisdom, honesty, fairness, love and faithfulness and a lot of other things. At the same time he warns him against the thorns - those things that are not sustainable and which can destroy your life. I recently took a bag of prickly pears to my father on his farm in the Northwest. He is advanced in years now and I don't know how many prickly pears we will still be able to enjoy together. I pealed the prickly pears, like he taught me, and shared it with him. It reminded me of the day in the blesbuck camp on our farm Swartfontein and the sweet prickly pear which I ate. I realise now that it was not so much about the prickly pear, but the fact that I could share it with him in the blesbuck camp. A father who taught me about the sweetness and the thorns of a prickly pear... and of life. SENWES Scenario • Apr/May 2016 61