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OB I TU A RI ES Neil was, first and foremost, a first-rate teacher, exceptionally knowledgeable and of great integrity, one who inspired the brightest but was also patient with the weak. Neil’s time as Head of Chemistry was one of great change in syllabuses and examinations, as well as the move to full co-education. Cautious of change for its own sake, he showed, once convinced of its need, great skill and leadership in enabling the department to accept the challenge of the new International Baccalaureate curriculum. Indeed it is impossible to overestimate the contribution he made to the present academic standing of the school. Pupils are the best judges of teachers and these are some of their comments: ‘He was one of the best teachers I had at school and a lovely man…he got me through GCSE Chemistry with a mixture of humour and a great deal of patience…he inspired me to go and study Biochemistry…a wonderfully talented teacher with a great sense of humour…a great teacher and a true gentleman…he has left a legacy through all those he has taught.’ He was also an extremely efficient Examinations Officer and many will remember him giving out papers in the Marley Sports Hall and announcing in that Welsh accent, ‘You may now start writing.’ Neil expected the best of his students and was only intolerant of the lazy. And it was not only in the classroom that Neil excelled: an admired rugby coach, he was on the groundbreaking 1976 Sevenoaks School Rugby World Tour. A humane and very effective tutor, he dealt with teenage problems with understanding but firmness. His years in particular as Tutor at the International Centre from 1983 are still warmly remembered by men now in their fifties. Neil Morgan 1943-2018 Neil Morgan came to teach Chemistry at Sevenoaks School in 1970. The son of a Welsh miner, he took his degree at Cardiff, where he played rugby and cricket for the university, and then gained his PhD – hence ‘Doc’ Morgan as he was known to students. He became Head of Chemistry in 1974 and later led the Science Faculty as well as serving as Senior Master until his retirement in 2005. 118 ALUMNI REVIEW Above all Neil was a superb colleague whose experience and humanity gave him a degree of wisdom that made him one of the most respected members of the Common Room. His humour, his clear-minded intelligence and his excellent powers of organisation set an example for all: the school is indeed fortunate to have been served by such an outstanding teacher. John Guyatt, Undermaster 1990-2003 Andrew Bass 1943-2018 Andrew Gilbert Bass grew up in Chipstead with his father Douglas, mother Eileen and sister Angela. He won a scholarship to Sevenoaks School and was offered a place at Dartmouth Naval College, before finding out the day before his A-level exams that a heart defect meant he had failed the medical. He went on to work at Lloyds of London, eventually becoming one of a very small group of experts in the reinsurance market; his advice and opinion being sought and highly valued. He was a member of the Chartered Insurance Institute for over 50 years. He then went on to a second career as CEO of Bromley Mencap. He loved both careers. Dad always loved fun and laughter. His smile, twinkle in his eye and a playful raised eyebrow were never far away. Whether larking about on a boat on the river Dart with his cousin David, or going with the family to a pantomime, Dad loved to laugh. This was never more so than with the Ashdown Forest Morris Men, the Morris side that he was proud to be a member of for nearly 40 years, usually dressed as the badger, their mascot. described by his friends as ‘a man of great integrity, kindness and highly respected; a true gentleman and scholar who will be greatly missed’ and ‘a truly good man; a chum with a marvellous sense of humour’. Dad always spoke highly of his time at Sevenoaks School; a place for which he held a deep affection. It gave him a huge number of opportunities and experiences (such as his CCF trip to the Brecon Beacons with the master George Alcock, and representing the school at a variety of sports). This helped him to become the gregarious man he did, making many friends from all walks of life and perhaps most importantly, gave him lifelong friendships with his great friends from his days at Sevenoaks, Ted Sayer and Tim McCartney. Damian Bass Eric Darlow 1941-2018 Eric Darlow entered Sevenoaks School at the age of 14 in 1955 from Chelmsford Hall preparatory school. He joined School House, where his housemaster was Carol Forder. Dad had a real joie de vivre and always strived to make the most of every day. He loved walking; on family holidays in the Alps during his childhood, on top of the Ashdown Forest, or on the South Downs with family and friends. Music was also important to him; he loved singing with the East Grinstead Choral Society, the Orpheus Male Voice Choir and with Ashdown Forest Morris Men. He excelled at many sports at school and later in life, and passed on his love of sport to his children and grandchildren. He was an excellent runner for Blackheath Harriers, and although he always underplayed his own sporting abilities, he praised and championed others. A love of cricket nurtured at his prep school under the headmastership of Col LC Stevens ensured Eric progressed rapidly up through the Colts at Sevenoaks, as a batsman, and on to the 1st XI. A good athlete, he also played rugby for the 2nd XV where his turn of speed and formidable hand-off were especially useful. He was a member of the CCF and gained his house colours. His extra-curricular activities also included a deep love of jazz. Indeed, he was an enthusiastic founding member of the school jazz band, with great encouragement from Brian (Fuzz) Townend. It was jazz that in later life he was able to enjoy to the full as an accomplished trombonist with several small groups and friendships long continued. Love for family and friends, and showing kindness to many others was a key part of Dad’s life. Nothing was too much trouble and a great many people benefited from this facet of his character, where his deep- seated sense of community shone through. Dad was Eric John Darlow was born on 5 August 1941, in Pembury, Kent. In 1947, his father, Flight Lieutenant Arthur Darlow, having survived a Lancaster crash on his 32nd op during the Second World War, and being captured as a POW, was tragically killed in a plane SEVENOAKS SCHOOL 2017-2018 119