How empty nesters can overcome boredom
Metro Creative Connection
Raising children is a significant responsibility . Parents know there ' s no such thing as a day off , which is why the first day they come home to an empty nest can be so confounding .
After roughly two busy and likely hectic decades or more of looking after their children , parents whose sons or daughters have left home for the first time may experience feelings of sadness and loss . That ' s not unusual , as the Mayo Clinic notes it ' s a phenomenon known as " empty nest syndrome ." Though it ' s not a clinical diagnosis , empty nest syndrome can be a difficult hurdle to overcome , especially for parents who find themselves suddenly bored after years of being so busy . Empty nesters looking to banish boredom can consider these strategies :
— Give your home a new look . Parents go to great lengths to make their homes welcoming safe havens for their children . Moms and dads often joke that , between play rooms and study areas , kids get the bulk of the real estate under their roofs . Now that the children have moved out , parents can take back that space and refresh their homes . A home that ' s adapted for empty nesters will look quite different from one designed for families with young children . So a renovation or redesign can provide plenty of work that can fill idle time and instill a sense of excitement about the future .
— Become a weekend road warrior . Newly minted empty nesters are likely still working full-time . But now that there ' s no soccer practices or band recitals taking up valuable real estate on your weekend schedule , Saturdays and Sundays can provide perfect opportunities to travel . Plan routine weekend getaways , choosing different locales for each trip . Visit a city one weekend and devote a subsequent trip to the great outdoors .
– Reconnect with old friends . Some individuals experiencing empty nest syndrome may be hesitant to admit they ' re experiencing feelings of sadness and loneliness . But a recent Sky Mobile study of parents of teenagers in England found that 47 percent were fretting about having an empty nest . So it ' s likely that old friends and fellow parents are experiencing feelings associated with empty nest syndrome . Reaching out to old friends is a great way to reconnect and can provide an outlet to discuss feelings parents might be hesitant to share with others . But empty nesters who experience significant feelings of sadness and loneliness are urged to speak with a health care professional as well .
— Replace kids ' activities with your own . After years of toting kids from one extracurricular activity to another , empty nesters can now do the same for themselves . Visit local community centers and libraries and ask about classes for adults . Many offer classes on everything from crafts to sports . Adults also can research continuing education programs at local colleges and universities if they ' re interested in a career change or pursuing an advanced degree for personal enrichment .
Newly minted empty nesters can look at their empty nest as an opportunity to engage in activities that pique their interests after years of catering to the needs and wants of their children .
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