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‘Second Sunset’ – from a different perspective. I tell my parents I I spent the last couple weeks visiting my admire the life they have created for themselves. parents. They have this great cabin, fun friends and I’ve been lucky in the parent department. It’s neighbors, they bike all summer, ski all winter, fashionable to recall some pivotal incident that and, at the end of every day, they get an extra occurred when we were 8, and extrapolate how sunset. every diffi culty experience in our life since is a I’d like an extra sunset. result. But I’ve never seen any truth to this in my By middle age, I thought I could already see the own life. I was really happy when I was 8 – and I sun going down. I fi gured I knew, more or less, give my parents full credit. how the story ended. It turns out I was wrong. My life is very different from my parents’ Today, I am doing things I never dreamt of life. Still, they have always been supportive, and doing 15 years ago; things I never imagined I have always at least pretended to be interested could do. But now, as I scramble up the hill in the in whatever I was doing as I careened from one end-of-the-day light, I realize how much there is career to the next. When, in my 50s, I started to do in the late afternoon, how much is left to to write, my parents were characteristically see. I’d feel a lot sillier if I were the only one enthusiastic, with only the occasional exception panting up the hill, but I have a lot of company. (perhaps when I wrote in a column how my All around me I see folks looking for that second mother used to garden in her red bikini.) sunset: picking up paintbrushes and pens and They have always lived a life they enjoy and college degrees, trying on new haircuts and new are proud of, and have encouraged me to do the beliefs. Sometimes it’s a little embarrassing – but same. Now, in their 80s, my parents still inspire we don’t really care. me. Most recently, it was at sunset. Like my parents, we’re just grateful to get My parents live in Northern Minnesota in a this extra sunset. We’re so glad the sun hasn’t cabin high on a hill overlooking the lake, so you gone down after all. We just needed a different have to climb a lot of steps to get from the cabin perspective. We just needed to get to higher down to the shore. My father built the steps down ground. to the lake. In the middle of the climb, there is Learn more about Carrie at CarrieClasson. a bench where (my dad insists) there is a good com. place to admire the view. (It happens to also be a good place to rest on the way up – but I’ll let him stick to his story.) Walk-In Tubs Almost every evening, my WALK-IN BATHTUB SALE! SAVE $1,500 parents fi nd their way down to the water’s edge. They take a �EXPERIENCE YOU CAN TRUST! Only American Standard has OVER 140 seat on the dock and watch the years of experience and offers the Liberation Walk-In Bathtub. sun set across the lake. They �SUPERIOR DESIGN! listen to the loons call to one Ultra low easy entry and exit design, wide door, built-in safety bar and textured floor another across the water and provides a safer bathing experience. watch the clouds turn pink �PATENTED QUICK-DRAIN TECHNOLOGY as the sun disappears in the �LIFETIME WARRANTY! evening sky. The ONLY Lifetime Warranty on the bath AND installation, INCLUDING labor Then they do it all over backed by American Standard. again. �44 HYDROTHERAPY JETS! More than any other tub we’ve seen. Because the cabin sits so far above the shore, when they Lifetime Warranty! climb back up the hill, the sun Finance Options Available * is no longer below the horizon, Limited Time Offer! Call Today! but just beginning to set again FREE! FREE! An In-Home – a second sunset. Or visit: www.walkintubinfo.com/hjp Savings Include an Evaluation Will American Standard Be Scheduled So, my parents take a seat Right Height Toilet At Your Earliest FREE! ($500 Value) Convenience outside their cabin and watch the whole thing all over again THE POSTSCRIPT BY CARRIE CLASSON ® 855-739-5528 Discount applied at time of purchase. Terms and Conditions Apply. * Subject to 3rd party credit approval. Minimum monthly payments required. Receive a free American Standard Cadet Toilet with full installation of a Liberation Walk-In Bath, Liberation Shower, or Deluxe Shower. Offer valid only while supplies last. Limit one per household. Must be first time purchaser. All offers subject to change prior to purchase. See www.AmericanStandardBathtubs.com for other restrictions and for licensing, warranty, and company information. * CSLB B982796; Suffolk NY:5543IH; NYC:HIC#2022748-DCA. Safety Tubs Co. LLC does not sell in Nassau NY, Westchester NY, Putnam NY, Rockland NY. Senior Connections HJ.COM 7