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SELF “ In Singapore, there’s definitely a stigma towards dressing outside of your gender stereotype. I would get female friends to pay for my clothes at the counter for me to avoid getting strange looks. Here, I could walk down the street in a dress, and no one would bat an eyelid.” Joseph “ I change my look so often - my hair, my clothes - dressing more masculine one day, and more feminine the other. I find myself always mixing it up, it’s hard to define what’s ‘me.’” “ I’ve always like shopping. It’s more than retail therapy, the way you dress can affect your mood for the day, and the way you interact with others. Sometimes dressing up can lift your spirits, and conversely, an oversized hoodie and tights may provide the comfort you need when times get rough. I’ve never cared for the idea of gendered clothing. Who decided suits were for men and dresses for ladies? Currently, everything I’m wearing is from the female section.” “ When I was in the military, they shaved everyone bald. After that experience, I started trying everything. I’ve gone through three hairstyles in the past two months. I plan on going bald again next year though, just to get over that fear of starting all over.”