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DEFINING HEROES W ho are heroes? What makes them heroes? How do you become a hero? Defining the word hero is challenging. The dictionary states that a hero is any person admired for courage, nobility, or exploits, especially in war. However, for most people; the definition of “hero” is left to their interpretation. For example, to a coffee addict, the daily milkman or the local barista would be their hero. To a patient a blood donor and to vendors, farmers would be their heroes. I believe a hero is someone who gets the job done regardless of the difficulties it may bring.He or she faces the odds, social stigma and prejudice without a hint of fear, and there are more heroes out there than we could imagine. People who are heroes do not always get recognized, some don’t even think of themselves as heroes. True heroes are more than action figures, actors, personalities, they are ordinary people who accomplish their goal which bravery, calm and kind.The trail of ‘Unsung heroes’ begins at home; our mothers. 36 In this world of athletes and actors who are revered as heroes, there stands apart one unsung hero, who with her quiet strength, wisdom and courage, has raised a nation. Unfortunately, not every child is blessed with good mothers. India is home to 20 million orphans and only four percent of them are sheltered in charities. Luckily though, an unsung hero was born in our motherland on 14 November 1948, in Maharashtra – the mother of orphans, Sindhutai Sapkal. Sapkal, unlike Mother Teresa, didn’t give up her comfortable life to help the poor, she rose from the depths of despair as an orphan and dedicated her life to be the mother she wished she had. Despite her interest in academics, she was forced into child marriage at the age of ten, to a thirty-year-old abusive man. After getting beaten up every day, she was finally thrown out of the house when she was nine-months pregnant. Sapkal gave birth to her daughter in a cowshed and cut the umbilical cord with a stone.