There's Nothing Like a Real Father:
A Letter to My Dad
Most men assume that girls need their mother. To some degree that is true but, dad where are you? I really can't know what boys I should or shouldn't like or date because you are not around. What forces you to not be in my life?
I'm grateful for my step-dad, but don't you at least want to see me grow up? Don't you at least want to attend at least one of my games? The name that so many have given you is "deadbeat". A deadbeat is a name that so many give to their parents when they don’t take care of their children. I refuse to call you a deadbeat; I will just assume that you are dead. I have to assume you are dead because surely no real parent would want to miss the majority of their child's life on purpose. No, not one! I know in the past you have been able to blame my mom for not answering her telephone, but know that I'm older and I'm able to answer calls and make phone calls now. Please, tell me what's your excuse now dad?