Risk & Business Magazine JGS Insurance Magazine Winter 2018 | Page 30

WORDS OF WISDOM WORDS OF WISDOM N ow, normally I would not do this, but I feel obligated to share this message with you! I work very closely with my mentor, we chat constantly and with that I have heard every analogy he can come up with! I guess he has a way with words and can make anyone understand any topic of discussion. He writes some awesome articles that are relatable to everyone and cover different facets of life. Maybe you have had the opportunity to have one of these philosophical chats with your mentor? I know, I know, you’re asking where is this going? Well, let me explain! My mentor has recommended listening to various podcasts and speakers to me over the past few years, and I have gotten more and more into it as time goes on. While trying to come up with a topic to write about . . . I mean, mindlessly scrolling Facebook on a rainy October day, I watched and most importantly listened to a video posted by Jay Shetty, “award winning host, storyteller and viral content creator” (www.jayshetty. me). This is not an advertisement for Jay Shetty, but I personally recommend checking out some of the messages/ perspectives he has put out there. I have heard this topic covered by many people (including my mentor) in many ways; however, I just loved this message from Jay: BY: ROSS E. RUTMAN, CLCS, CPIA ASSISTANT VICE PRESIDENT JGS INSURANCE Ross Rutman began his career in the property management industry thirteen years ago. While working within various departments including operations, information technology, condominium management and insurance; Ross decided to pursue his passion and joined JGS Insurance. For the past three years Ross has represented the JGS marketing team by working alongside our sales, service and management side of our business. He strives to provide a consultative approach and proactive services to our clients. There are three things that control our lives—time, wealth, and health. When we are young, we have time. Time to play, time to explore, time to waste, time to be curious. When we’re young, we generally have health, we have energy, we have strength. But most of us don’t have wealth. We don’t have all the money in the world. We can’t buy everything we want. We don’t get everything we want. As we get old, we still have our health. It may not be the same, but it’s still there. But we now have more wealth, we have more money, we have a home, we have devices and possessions, we have a car, we have access to things. But we don’t always have time. Money can buy a house, but not a home. It can buy a bed, but not sleep. It can buy a book, but not knowledge. Money can earn a title, but not respect. It can buy a clock, but not time. Those of us that think we have no time for our health will sooner or later have to find time for our illness. When we’re young, we had time and health but no money. When we’re older, we had money and health but no time. And finally, in old age, we have money and time, but no health to use that wealth. So, what do we do? We can have it all, just not all at the same time. We place so much pressure on ourselves trying to get everything to be perfect, trying to get everything to balance, trying to get everything to work together, not recognizing that it’s none of those things that actually creates happiness or fulfillment in life. As we get older, time, health, and wealth will all be taken away from us. But the one thing that can never be taken away from us is the impact we have on others. Because it lives on through them. >> 30