Risk & Business Magazine JGS Insurance Magazine Fall 2018 | Page 8

GRATITUDE As a Marketing Associate with over seven years of experience making things “look pretty,” Alicia Ambrose has mastered the ins and outs of graphic design, social media and brand awareness. After honing and executing these specialties, over the years, Alicia was excited to join JGS Insurance in the spring of 2017 where she spends the majority of her time brainstorming strategies to evolve this nearly 100-year old company, championing health and wellness initiatives for her coworkers all while making sure everything “looks pretty.” BY: ALICIA AMBROSE MARKETING ASSOCIATE JGS INSURANGE How Gratitude Makes Positivity A Daily Habit E ven the most happy and optimistic people have days when their positivity is challenged. The thing that separates them from many others is their ability to bounce back and maintain that positivity and optimism even in the face of adversity. Doing that, when it comes right down to it, is a matter of what you choose. You can either choose to be positive and maintain a positive outlook on life or you can choose to be miserable. Either way, don’t make the mistake of thinking that your mood is something that is happening to you and not something you have control over. Each day that comes to us is a gift. Those gifts can sometimes contain great things. Likewise, they can sometimes contain things that make us wish we hadn’t received them. It’s hard to keep a smile on your face when you experience work problems, social woes, or things just aren’t going your way. Small daily rituals, however, can help you overcome those issues and keep a grip on what is really important to you. 8 Here are some examples: • Planning out your next day before you go to bed at night, removing that stress from the next day • Think about the people you will meet during the day and how you want those interactions to go • Spend a little time to yourself doing something you enjoy Obviously this list is not exhaustive. In fact, perhaps the number one indicator of how positive and optimistic a person may be is the degree to which they practice gratitude. Much like optimism and positivity, it isn’t always easy to practice gratitude. Doing so, however, can have a profound effect on your outlook on life. The problem often isn’t being grateful; it’s knowing what to be grateful about. Once you get past the low hanging fruit (family, a home, food, etc.), it starts to get a bit hazy. Consider this: not only are the good things in your life something to be grateful for but so are the things that you perceive as negative. Let’s say the line in the grocery store is extremely long. Most people would get frustrated, creating a negative emotional feedback loop in themselves and potentially messing up their day. What if, instead, you viewed that time as an opportunity to make some small talk with the people around you? It’s all about your mind-set. DO YOURSELF A FAVOR. WHEN YOU WAKE UP IN THE MORNING, SPEND A FEW MINUTES THINKING ABOUT HOW YOU GOT TO THE PLACE THAT YOU ARE AT CURRENTLY. THINK ABOUT ALL OF THE EVENTS—GOOD AND BAD—AND ALL OF THE PEOPLE THAT PUT YOU HERE. FROM THERE, YOU WILL HAVE A GOOD SENSE OF HOW YOU WANT TO HANDLE THINGS IN THE FUTURE. This small daily ritual will bring profound change and positivity into your life. Let’s be honest—who doesn’t want more of that in their lives? +