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waiting to take his revenge. People who take revenge do not do
so just for the sake of it; they are avenging themselves for the
pain they were subjected to in the past. This is revenge in
operation.
Service to Parents Is Service of God
The first and foremost service worth doing is one for your
parents.
If you take care of your parents, you will not lose your
peace of mind. Nowadays, people do not serve their parents with
a true heart. When a man turns twenty-five or so, he gets married
and acquires a ‘guru’ (wife). As soon as the guru appears, she
wants to move away from his parents into a new home. Have
you seen such gurus? As soon as he acquires a guru, he changes.
The ‘guru’ will tell him that he has no idea what his mother is
like. At first he may not listen, but after being told this several
times over, he changes his opinion about his own mother and
starts following his wife.
If a person serves his parents with a pure heart, he will
never experience loss of peace; that is how this world is. This
world is not such that you can ignore it. When a man does not
take care of his parents, people will blame him and not the
parents. I tell people that the parents are not receiving good care
because they themselves did not care for their own parents. So
this understanding is wrong. From now on if they were to start
afresh and behave as good children or parents should, it would
be good.
That is what I am encouraging in each and every home.
The children are changing for the better and so are the parents.
In doing service for the elderly, our Vignan (science of
Absolutism of Dada) will blossom. How can one serve an idol?
Do the legs of an idol ache? Service should be done for one’s
guardians, the elderly, or for one’s guru.