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Right Understanding to Help Others 25 anyone even when others hurt him. Not only that, he will not wish them ill. On the contrary, he will bless the person who hurts him. In the service to the Self, even when a person yells abusively at you, you will not be affected. You simply have to ‘see’ what You are doing. The other person may continue to talk like a radio, but You simply have to ‘see’ that ‘the radio is blaring.’ Questioner: When everyone around us hurts us, it becomes unbearable. I cannot tolerate it even when people at home insult me slightly, so then what should I do? Dadashri: Then what else can you do? If you do not live in this way, (following Dadashri’s instructions) then how else will you live? Tell me that much. If someone does not like what I am saying, then what other line should that person follow? Is a ‘safe side’ to be found anywhere else? If there is, then tell me about it. Questioner: I don’t mean it like that. But our ego always gets in the way, does it not? Dadashri: The ego becomes an obstacle from the time of birth, but You should not let it become an obstacle. The ego will dance the way it pleases but You do not need to dance along with it also. You are separate from it. Religions That Do Not Serve Others Are Merely Entertainment There are only two religions, the real and the relative. There is no third kind. All other religions are ornamental and so people become enticed by them through validation of pride. In those religions where there is no service of any kind to the world, they are all merely ornamental shows which provide religious entertainment (manoranjan). The intellect and its function are acceptable only as long