Rhode Island Monthly April 2020 | Page 14

Chatter On RIMonthly.com “The Things They Carry,” February As the daughter, sister and aunt to firefighters and police officers, I implore you to share this edition with every police and fire depart- ment in our state. I have seen first-hand the effects some of these traumas have on these dedicated public servants. We need to let them know there is help out there for them. We need to remove the stigma associated with PTSD. As one of those interviewed said, it isn’t a disorder. It’s an injury. I will be sharing with my family. I’m responding to Casey Nilsson’s brilliant article pertaining to firefighters and PTSD. It’s about time attention was brought to this very real problem. My heart was breaking while reading the article because as a retired firefighter/ EMT, I can identify with their struggles. I was on the department for twenty-three years and am well aware of the effects not only because of the many different and difficult scenarios, but also because I was a woman in a male-oriented field. We’ve lived these incidents and they stay with us forever. [This] was one of the best articles I have read in Rhode Island Monthly and perhaps in any magazine. I am a nurse and have first responders in my family. This article is very articulate, truthful and thought provoking. There is still not parity between mental health and medical health. I hope this opens many minds. PATRICIA BIXBY JONI R HOM E AND STYLE TH I NGS TO DO WRENTHAM, MASS. CUMBERLAND It’s the time of year to get down and dirty — in the garden, that is! Start your sprucing at our favorite flower and garden nurseries in Rhode Island. April showers bring May (and June and July) flowers. Pick your own at picture-perfect flower farms across the state. Contest KRISTIN SULLIVAN CUMBERLAND Cast Your Vote! FOOD AND DRI NK Hop on over to the state’s top restaurants for Easter brunch or dinner, and leave the cooking (and cleaning!) to the pros. What Pizza Topping Are You? Find out this month in our fun, interactive quiz on RIMonthly.com and you’ll be entered to win a restaurant gift card! Get Social With Us @RIMonthly It’s time to cast your vote for the state’s best restaurants, shopping, entertainment and more! The ballot is open April 1–30 on RIMonthly.com. One vote per valid email address. CULTURE H EALTH Celebrate the land we love this Earth Day with clean-ups on the beach and in your neighborhood. Keep the kids active on rainy days with our picks for fun indoor play spaces. PLUS! THE DINER’S UPDATE / ONLINE CALENDAR / HOUSE LUST Letters and comments may be edited for length and style. 12    RHODE ISLAND MONTHLY l APRIL 2020 COURTESY COURTESY From our Readers