face themselves and move through hurt, disappointment , setbacks, setups failures and ultimately live a victorious life. Existing in defeat is Not an option…
~Describe something our readers today can look forward to discovering in your book, My Pain Has Purpose "After This":
After traumatic experiences we must choose to live and not just exist…there are some tools to assist in your moving forward with living. It is important to understand that there is still hope after setbacks and your life matters.
~What are 1-3 tips you can give our reader today to help them step forward in their life powerfully?
1. Be honest and transparent with yourself you must choose to be important to yourself
2. Love yourself that you may love others, as God loves us. Trust God and allow Him to recalculate your route: like your trust GPS
3. Be determined to survive so you can learn to Thrive
~Will you share a client success story?
I had a recent client come to me prior to her husband dying because she was so overwhelmed with processing his transition right before her eyes. When we met she felt comfort because I was able to listen and hear as she poured out heart. His diagnosis to death journey and our lives were very similar so I could relate and tap into her emotional state. Grief comes in waves and there are many myths that we are taught growing up. In our session we were able to openly uncover her disappointment and I helped to prepare her for what was ahead. God prepares us in subtle ways that we often miss because we are consumed with what we see in front of us as it relates in this ca o the dying and death of a spouse. I taught her that each death/loss is different therefore, the grief will be different. She also learned that she was experience normal reaction to an unwanted change. She was able to prepare for the end of life journey for him because of her willingness to serve selflessly. Her husband has since died and we are working together now to heal and mend her broken her. She tells me how grateful she is that God sent her to our office because she is not allowing herself to be stuck.
My journey through grief opened the door for me to be a humble vessel that God could use because I choose to live in hope and not allow that tsunami of his death to consume my life ad drown me.
~What tip or piece of advice can you share with our reader today to empower them to SHINE?
If you find yourself in a place of darkness I encourage you to take a good look at the person inside of you longing to be released. You must have a relationship with yourself in order to be all that you choose to be. It is so important to love you so that transformation can take place in your life. The change you want for you comes from within.
~Any final thought, share, or idea that you would like to share with our readers today?
God is my source and He has the ultimate plan laid out for us. We have to move out of His way to receive all that is stored up for us. In a time of need we must have faith that He will keep His promises as stated in Jeremiah 29:11. I stand on this scripture and believe in my heart.
If you make the choice to heal your broken heart you can. It begins with you taking the appropriate action. Time with action heals, time with no action is merely time passing.
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