We have more power than we realise, we don’t have to be captive to someone’s miserable unending approach to life.
For those of us who see things in a positive light, this is especially true as we are more sensitive to it. We need to protect ourselves from them specifically because:
• When we know we are going to see them, our heart sinks a little • When we are in the room with them, we just want to leave as soon as possible • When we are discussing them, or something involving them, we feel less positive • When we know we are about to inform them of something, we brace ourselves
For us to have aligned with these statements means we are dealing with negative people.
Our instinct is never wrong. We must trust that how we feel reflects what we are experiencing. Dealing with a negative person is life draining and difficult. We need to value ourselves more and believe in who we are, and maybe limit our exposure to them. about the author gloria masters Gloria is a NZDRC panellist who specialises in Mediation and Conflict Management.
She is known for her excellent mediation skills, communication building and mentoring of those involved with mediation issues. She provides a practical solution focused approach, which moves the issue quickly to conclusion.For more information or to request the appoinment of Gloria, please email the registrar: [email protected] fdr centre fdrc family dispute resolution centre