Renton Woman Magazine November/December 2015 | Page 50

husy m d d rs an a e e sai Dear y H 2 e! or ’t n m ied f o r aven r g h a n i e m t a w e d been and y ch . d s a I’ve b e so ba l r l l 0 e a e 2 f is on’t w I ained o d g band N I I d n hs. cause ing a t mont a e 5 it’s be elp!!! p H o n t i s . e ’t sex rriag I can a had f m l e y mys ve m a s about o t how w o kn appy h n U Fat & , Bella Dear Fat & Unhappy, Well, you’re in quite the hot mess it seems! First of all, let’s address the weight and the lack of sex. Honey, 20 pounds ain’t a showstopper, and certainly not for 5 months. The problem is why YOU believe it is and why you haven’t addressed it other than to make it worse. Your problems aren’t with your husband right now, they’re with you. Put the fork down, push away from the table, and figure out 50 RENTON WOMAN MAGAZINE | why you feel bad about yourself without making it your husbands fault. Change has to begin with you, so stop putting your ability to be better in the hands of a man who isn’t even looking in your direction right now. Some spring in your step and a new attitude will have him wondering what’s making YOU so happy, and he’ll either come around or he won’t. I have a feeling you’ve hitched your horse to the wrong wagon anyway. But, you’ll figure that out in time. RentonWomanMagazine.com