Realty411 Magazine Featuring Lori Greymont | Page 28

We have all heard the mantra is: “Go to school, get a degree, get a good job.” I actually started down that path. Then, I saw death and the fragility of life in a very real way. My mom’s sister, brothers, mother and father all died in less than three years. Her siblings were young and in the prime of their lives. One thing I remember hearing growing up was “When I retire, I’m going to…” and none of them made it to retirement. I decided that death was going to come some day, and so I needed to choose to live every day to its fullest. I couldn’t let fear be the master that enslaved me. Think about it, how many people live a passionless life because of the fear of something they aren’t doing? Why not I wanted to do for the remaining years of my life. With that decision, I knew that owning my own business was the key to my plan. So, I finished my degree as a backup plan and started on my path of being a business owner. I was determined to live a “no regrets” life. Linda: You often mention that you live a contrarian life, what does that mean and why? Lori: My use of the phrase “contrarian” life is to explain that I don’t conform to the normal for the sake of fitting in. It ap- plies to my life as a whole in most of the major decisions. I do the things that I want to do, regardless of how it might appear to others. for you when you know the source is clean and safe. And nothing beats all the yogurt, cheese and kefir you can make with the whole fat milk straight from the cow! We also raise and butcher our own meat. Now, there is no way I have room on my little amount of land, but I partner with others who have the land so I know what’s going on my table from start to finish - beef, pork, turkey, lamb, etc. Until my mom needed my attention, I homeschooled my four children with the help of local co-ops. When I told my family 15 years ago my plans for school my brother asked “Are you going to brainwash your kids?” and I thought for a moment and replied, “Yes.” My internal thought was, “Yes, as a matter of fact I am! I am going to create God-fearing, people-loving, creative, problem-solving, entrepreneurial adults.” I now have two heading off to college next year. They are all that and more, not because of any one person, but because of their lack of fear to get what they want and their love of learning. Look, I have the same concerns and cares in this life as everyone else does. I just choose to seek out an answer that fits what my goal is, not just settle for the obvious or common answer. I choose to create the lifestyle that supports the aspira- tions, goals and dreams of my family and then I put the construct around that to support it. Linda: Isn’t it expensive to live your lifestyle? Lori: You might think to yourself, that’s “We have transacted over 1,600 properties since 2010 and in each case we feel we have added value to the people in the transaction, the homes and the communities.” do it and see if that “fear” thing actually materializes? Most likely it won’t and you will know for sure. I live on an acre and a half in Morgan Hill. In the Midwest where I grew up, this would be a postage stamp! Here in Silicon Valley, it’s a good amount of land. We have horses, chickens, dogs, cats and up until a year ago, two milk cows. I would milk my cows once a day and local families would help consume the copious amounts of excess milk I had. We drank it “raw”! You might be thinking “eww” or “is that safe?” but, with education, you would find that raw milk is much healthier Linda: How did that life event change you? Lori: I decided I was going to create the lifestyle I wanted. I would live life each day rather than plan for it when I retire. I refused to work 40 hours a week for 40 years at a job I hated so I could have enough money to go do the things Realty411Guide.com PAGE 28 • 2015 great, you have all the money you want to do that! The truth is I didn’t start with money as a factor in the picture at all. I made decisions on what I wanted and then I found a way to make it happen. Whatev- er resources I was lacking, I partnered. I became a deal maker in my personal life and my professional life. I am a “Both/ AND person not an Either/Or.” I want both. I want my cake and I want to eat it!! This is what I mean by “I live a contrarian life.” Rather than just floating down the reWEALTHmag.com