RealizAsian Magazine Volume 16 | Page 7

relate. Curiosity is a desire to know, which prompts us to engage in a process of inquiry. Through this process we become more confident asking “How do you feel?” or “Tell me more about …” Inquiry is important in many other spaces, for instance, when searching for a job. The career world refers to this as networking. When we seek guidance or support from others, staff in student affairs call this mentoring. We use this process of inquiry when we want to learn about other cultures. This is called cultural competence. We also employ inquiry when we want to create change for the common good. This is called leadership. We use this process on a first date, or commonly known as dating (wink). I’m sure the point is sinking in. No matter what we call it, at the heart of it all, we are constantly forming relationships. I encourage you to maximize your curiosity. College is your time to be curious about everything and everyone around you. In building relationships you gain so much more than a long list of contacts on your cell phone or on Facebook. Compare all your relationships, including those you have made through social media. Have you exchanged meaningful personal information with each other? Do they represent the diverse world around you? Do you have trust in them? What do you gain from them and what do you give back to them? As you think about these questions critically, you learn more about yourself. We encourage you to take advantage of the relationships you can form at CMASS. Visit us in Wilder Hall to request or become a mentor, to find similarities or differences with other cultures, to support a prospective student, get feedback on your resume or personal statement. Come utilize the computer lab or the free graduate school study materials, or just come to relax. We assure you, we can enhance your college experience. - CMASS, Wilder Hall