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MOVING WITH CHILDREN *
While moving can be stressful for adults, the corresponding anxiety it can cause children, is often even
more pervasive and lingering. In many cases, the stress children experience from leaving behind friends
and favorite places far eclipses the anxiety over leaving their physical home for another. Here are some
tips to help ease the transition for your children. For more information and tips on moving with children,
ask your Real Living Lifestyle Advisor.
*As taken from the Real Living. Real Answers. SM guide, How to Move With Consideration for Children.
HELP EASE THE TRANSITION FOR YOUR CHILDREN
PREPARING YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN
By properly preparing for your move, you can
reduce the stress for your children (and thus
yourself) by developing a plan of:
INVOLVE YOUR CHILDREN IN THE
RELOCATING PROCESS
During the town/home selection process consider:
Giving assignments to your children such as,
When to tell your children researching towns, schools, recreational activities
How to tell them are confident your children will be able to accept
How to select the right town, city or neighborhood
based upon your needs and interests
When to pack
When to declutter
When to move out
When to move in
and homes (establish price range), but only if you
your final decision on where you will move.
Assigning each child the responsibility of
preparing their individual room for the move.
Asking your children to research the services and
recreational activities that are important to them.
Planning with your children how to best manage
saying goodbye to friends and establishing an
ongoing communication plan with them.
DECIDING WHETHER RENTING OR OWNING IS
BEST FOR YOUR CHILDREN’S DEVELOPMENT
While numerous studies assert owning a home
provides a developmental advantage for children,
other studies claim the overall stability of the
Organizing some of their favorite activities
before you leave and researching how these
favorite activities can be continued in the next
town or city.
family and neighborhood weigh more heavily.
Step 2 / Review Your Lifestyle Options
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