Real Life Real Faith Wisdom for Everyday Life January Issue | Page 16

DEAR SCOTT WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR SOMEONE LATELY? SCOTT BARKER It comes to mind that being of service needs to be an “every day” thing. I convinced myself of this many years ago. Today, every day, I look for ways to serve others that will benefit themselves and others into the future. Until someone I didn’t know reached out and gave me a hug one day, I never knew it could be so powerful. Selfless acts of kindness for those in need, whether they admit it or not, can go a long way into turning someone into a person that feels worthy and appreciated. Being a Christian doesn’t just mean going to church and then on to breakfast later, it means DOING for others without expecting something in return. The “What’s in it for me” attitude doesn’t exist in the Bible, therefore, it should not exist in you or anyone else. Sure, I always wanted something in return like most of us have. I found out quickly that attitude wasn’t who I am, or was for that matter. I soul-searched and began to understand that I had a heart, not unlike the Tin Man from the Wizard of Oz. I only needed to find out how to make it tick…and I did! I had found my lifeline, giving of myself and my means to others. I posted on a popular Social Network in October of 2015 the following: “I wonder what the world would be like if we all shared our resources, talents and knowledge?” You see, being Christian isn’t about what country you live in, what race you were born into or how many THINGS you have…It’s about what you can, will and have done for others that is positive and selfless. I dare you to do any of the following and see for yourself the positive affect you can have on someone: Smile beamingly at a stranger that needs it Hug someone sincerely that needs a ‘pick me up’ Listen, really listen to someone that needs to be heard Help someone across the street Mentor an adult or child Pay for a stranger’s groceries Show your sincere gratitude to anyone that helps you And, most of all, please, be the Christian God intended you to be. Written by Scott T. Barker Children’s Author and Poet