Real Estate Investor Magazine South Africa December 14/ January 15 | Page 34

STRATEGIES 3 By Brian Walsh Wealth Strategies Get powerful results… Part 3 O ver the last two issues I shared the first strategy, which was ‘Manage Your Resources’ and the second strategy, which was ‘Continuous Education & Self Development’. This week I shall share the last strategy, which is the key strategy that I believe took me from struggling for 20 years to achieving true success. STRATEGY #3 - Be true to who you are and what you value I was traveling 300 kilometers from the City of Cape Town in South Africa to our family holiday house in Witsand by the Breede River Mouth. Crazy things were playing out in my mind. Had my life really shifted like it felt it had? Had things really changed, or was this success I was experiencing just a glitch in the system? For over 20 years I had struggled, no matter what I did or how much I did it. But now suddenly I was achieving what seemed to be the elusive financial success I had been after. I pulled over on the side of the highway fourteen times to make notes of what was racing through my head. I had one burning question that needed to be answered: Why had this changed now? I shall never forget that day, because that was when I documented what I believe had really changed. That was when I realised it was not what I was doing differently, but rather who I had become, which had led to the success. Now more than a year later, I know it was not through a glitch or a mistake I was suddenly succeeding, it was a transformational shift that changed who I was in a subtle, but profound way. The difference was simply that I knew who I was, and I was true to who I was. 32 December 14 /January 15 SA Real Estate Investor Yes, this might sound a bit weird, but it is now what I call ‘The Secret to Success’. Being true to oneself has a whole new meaning and an incredible science to it. You can truly change your destiny and your immediate outcomes by learning about yourself, and focusing on what is true to yourself. How do you find out who you really are and what drives you? “The difference was simply that I knew who I was, and I was true to who I was.” The Solution: In early 2012, I decided on 19 January I would go to New York to attend Anthony Robbins’ ‘Unleash the Power Within’ seminar. The problem was I had no idea how I could afford it or how to make it a reality. It was in six weeks time – and I was struggling to save the money to go to the USA in August, when I had to visit my seven year old daughter; let alone afford this spontaneous and rather expensive trip now. But a miracle seemed to happen. Things fell into place to ensure I could go. Money materialised where I least expected it, and I ended up going to New York, seeing my daughter (then and again in August), and I www.reimag.co.za