Quincy Area Bridal Magazine Issue 26 | Page 58

Wedding Ediquette ...

Don ’ t be the person who doesn ’ t RSVP . This is the number one complaint that I hear over and over again from my brides and grooms . RSVPing is the couple ’ s best tool for planning their big day . To name just a few ; their budget , meal planning and drink service . Fill out the RSVP card and quickly return it . Don ’ t put it off as it is so easy to miss the requested deadline if you don ’ t respond right away . Now that you have reserved your spot make sure you show up ! The bride and groom have invested money and time into having you as their guest so make sure you show them your respect .

Don ’ t be the person who brings an uninvited guest . Bring a “ plus one ” only if the invitation states that it is ok to do so . If the invitation does not state you and a guest are invited , then you are attending the celebration alone . When it comes to children , the invitation will state whether they are invited or not , so honor the bride and groom ’ s wishes . If children are invited , please watch your children during the reception . A wedding reception is not a babysitter for your child ( ren ).
Don ’ t be that disrespectful person with your cell phone . Turn your phone off during the Wedding Ceremony . The couple hired a professional photographer to capture their big day , allow them to do the job without obstacles . At the reception you are fine to take a few photos , just make sure you are not competing with the photographer for the same shot .
Don ’ t be the person who disrespects the dress code . There is always an “ unwritten ” dress code even if the couple has not requested one , follow it . Let me be honest with you , your favorite pair of dirty work boots with jeans , t-shirt and that ball cap are unacceptable if the groom is wearing a suit or a tux . You are not only embarrassing yourself but also the Bride and Groom . Plan to match the feel and vibe of the location of the event . If it ’ s on a beach then beach attire is acceptable , but if it is at a local ballroom , then dress to impress without being over the top .
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