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#ISPA2021 Seth will speak at the newly announced 2021 ISPA Conference & Expo next May. For more information, visit attendISPA.com. about your culture?” Then I would say, “Show me your culture contract.” A culture contract is a formal agreement that’s been collaboratively created to establish the specific values and behaviors all members of the team have agreed to embody. These values can be anything. Candor, courage, kindness, accountability—whatever values mean the most to you and your organization. The key is in identifying the values, collectively agreeing on what it means to embody them and then empowering the team to hold each other accountable to those values, consistently. What we’re talking about here is not aspirational words on the wall. This is about action. I know lots of leaders that feel good about claiming a value like candor, but then their team shows up and their actions towards each other are passive-aggressive and conflict avoidant. It’s the kind of environment where the “real meeting” happens after the meeting, and rumors and gossip run wild. This is what I call a culturally counterfeit team. It imitates high performance but it’s not the real thing. Once we’ve established “how” we’re going to show up as a team, the key to high-performance is to shift responsibility from people being responsible to the leader and to their individual performance expectations to people feeling responsible to the team. I want my team’s primary motivator not to be feeling accountable to me but to each other. The job of leadership is one of the most difficult but rewarding gifts in the world. The only way you can fully step up to the responsibility is to truly love and care for people. If you don’t love people, you can’t be a leader. You can a mediocre manager, but you’ll never be a true leader. If you feel called in your heart to do this work then you have to wake up every morning and recommit to leading yourself. Am I embodying the values we established as a team? How am I showing up today? How will I be remembered by the people I lead today? Lead yourself. Lead the team. The team will take care of the rest. n JUNE 2020 ■ PULSE 53