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P: What is the first step that readers can take to reprogram your brain? R: The first step is to become aware that you have thoughts, that these thoughts are not you and that you can control them. Negative thoughts change what you see in the world, so our outer world is very literally a reflection of our inner world, because that’s what we are telling the brain to perceive. We have all the control in our heads. What do the quality of your thoughts look like? Do they match where you want to be in life? If not, you need to do some house- cleaning. This is key to taking back control of your life. P: How did you become interested in public speaking and leading seminars? Why are doing these important to you? R: I was ready to take my own life because of my negative thought patterns, and I had no idea what power I actually possessed. Addiction rates are through the roof, people are checking out with their devices, binging shows, overeating— they’re seeking ways to numb their emotions and stress. Our brains were not built for all this stimulation, and we were never taught how to deal with it. My mission is to wake up others to their own power and to teach people about the ultimate control they have. P: You’re also involved in helping others recover from alcohol addiction. Could you tell me more about that, what you do, and why it’s important to you? R: I’ve been going back to my recovery house for four years now, and almost all the people that pass thought those doors are the same. We’re all intelligent people who don’t know how to handle our overactive brains. I am passionate about helping those who fight with addiction. Life is hard, and our thought patterns can rule our lives if we don’t become aware of them. I also know that sobriety doesn’t have to be hope based (“I hope I don’t use this week”) and that we are absolutely not powerless. P: Lastly, what work do you do on Shark Tank? How has working with so many entrepreneurs, not to mention the Sharks, impacted your life? R: Shark Tank has been such a great experience for the last decade of my life. It’s a show that actually changes lives, and being a part of that is really a unique experience. My department designs the pitch displays for all the entrepre- neurs, and we design them both for the Sharks and for the people watching at home. For many of these entrepreneurs it’s their first time on TV. After a career of designing for camera, we know what works and what doesn’t. We help them all equally, and each season that means designing for over 220 entrepreneurs. It’s a massive coordination effort tending to all of their unique needs, but we get paid to help people realize their dreams: nothing gets better than that. The Sharks have become friends and we all joke around on- set in between pitches. It’s a family vibe in the Tank now, and everyone on that stage loves coming to work. Our team is so talented and it’s because of them we can pull these crazy stunts off so smoothly. n QUICK QUESTIONS WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE MOVIE? The Martian, I can watch it over and over. I like his problem-solving brain and the drive to never give up. WHAT’S YOUR IDEAL VACATION? Somewhere tropical with a beach! Still hashing out my plan to work six months out of the year from a beach. I’ll keep you posted. WHO HAS HAD THE BIGGEST INFLUENCE ON YOUR LIFE? Joey Tabbanella; he woke me up to my thoughts and changed the course of my life forever. Joey, if you are reading this, the words “thank you” could never express enough. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE FOOD? Sushi or a good Poke bowl all day! December 2018 ■ PULSE 51