Program Success Magazine Easter 2013 | Page 31

PROGRAM SUCCESS – EASTER 2013 PAGE 31 Fisher’s of Men The shooting of Trayvon Martin by George Zimmerman started an outcry of injustice heard around this country and the world that affected the emotions of mothers and fathers, the young and the old, and every other soul regardless of race, creed and social-economic background. This incident based on public outcry is labeled the worst thing that ever happened. However, we have pinched our tent, painted our signs, put on our shoes and marched on the slippery tip of the iceberg, because not enough attention is being paid to the huge mass-of-a-problem that exist beneath the water out of which this tragic situation grew. Both of these young men took different paths in their life that united them on the narrow sidewalk that divided the back patios of the gated condominiums on that dreadful Sunday night. It is my opinion that we only kick against the pricks when we try to solve a problem without researching and discovering the root of the problem. That is if problem solving is our goal… maybe some only wants to complain. A Problem without a Solution is a Complaint. We know a lot about these young men by what has be uncovered by the media, although not presumed to be exact; it paints a picture worth noting. Trayvon Martin’s past shows trouble spots that reveals him as a teenage searching for identity down some trouble paths. His school suspensions for absences, marijuana traces, and the women’s jewelry found in his possession are again – the tip of the iceberg, of the many things that may have been troubling his life. The break-up of his mother and father, the two people he loved the most, may have played a factor in his acting-out. We do know that it was his suspension that leads him to Sanford at a time he should have been in school in Miami. George Zimmerman past also showed indicators that may lead him to this destructive path with a gun in his hand. Born in a family of a white father, a judge who married his Hispanic clerk, this life of privilege in the suburbs may not have faired well to George’s mixed heritage creating anger issues that lead to him having two restraining orders placed on him and an arrest for assaulting a police officer. Having a father of influence, however, allowed him to expunge his charges and records so he could pursue a career - ironically as a police officer, and also purchase a gun and obtain a permit to carry a concealed weapon. The combination of George’s anger problems, unsuccessful ambitions, life of privilege that cover his mistakes instead of correcting his mistakes, created the person who thinks he is entitled to defy authority and take matters into his own hand which by-the-way has a gun in it. George Zimmerman and Trayvon Martin are two young men, but not the only two young men in our communities whose troubled paths led to situations of senseless death. As a nation we have seen in Pasadena, California an unarmed young man Kendrec McDade was shot and killed by police because it was falsely reported that he and his friend had stolen a backpack from another young man at gun point. The backpack was recovered in their possession but the story of a gun was fabricated by the victim. The police said Kendrec McDade made a movement toward his waistband which made them shoot. Maybe this young Black college student was simply reaching to pull up his saggin pants? Then there was the young Asian man L. Goh who went into Oikos University a Christian College in Oakland, California with a gun, killing 7 and wounding 3 before turning himself in at a grocery store down the street. And there was T.J. Lane, a white high school student at Chardon High School, in Ohio, who took a gun to his school killing 3 of his schoolmates and wounding 2 others. What about Jared Lee Loughner, 22, who shot 18 people at a Safeway Supermarket in Arizona. His target was Congresswoman Gabrielle Gifford. 6 people died, including Judge John Roll, and 9-year old Christina-Taylor Green. And let’s not forget Timothy McVeigh who killed 168 people which included 19 children in the daycare, and wounded 450 in the Oklahoma City Bombing before the troubled path he traveled ended. There is a recorded police tape in the Trayvon Martin and George Zimmerman incident of a cry of Help. May I conclude that it was the cry of both these young men before that dreadful gunshot. There is always a cry of Help. In each of the lives of the young men mentioned above, there was a cry of Help. Maybe unheard… Maybe ignored? Either way – unassisted in time. Jesus gave an invitation in Matt 4:19 saying “follow me and I will make you Fishers of Men”. He who came to Love, Heal and Forgive and lived the perfect life, asked us to follow him, and as a result we will pull men from the seas of despair, pain, disappointment, and shame… fish them from the treacherous seas that causes them to destroy their lives and the lives of others. Our churches are 80% women which underscores the fact that we need Men to be Fishers of Men. Men who are willing to follow The Perfect Example and live exemplary lives that other men can see and be willing to follow. Men that stay with their wives and honor all women because they realize their actions are seeds planted in the lives of young men for generations to come. We need Men whose words today produce Love, have the ability to Heal, and can foster Forgiveness. On the occasions when Jesus fed the multitudes he only counted the men. In our society the well-being of our Men has great implications and great impacts. We need our Men to be present and counted among the family as Men of action and determination. Therefore let’s examine not just the tip of the iceberg, but instead go into the deep seas and discover the problems that are drowning our young men. Then, let’s seek and support those men among us who by the life they live show evidence that they are blessed by God to be Fishers of Men.